Everytime I get into a relationship something always goes wrong. My last relationship lasted 6 months and my ex-boyfriend and I used to get along great then all of a sudden he just stopped calling me and stopped answering my calls. He said that I got him into to much trouble. But I dont think that was it cuz I never did. He was 4 1/2 years older than me. Was he right to break up with me?
2007-02-20 14:52:29 · 23 answers · asked by SweetPie09 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no he was not rite. guyz have mental issues sumtimes. they alwayz have to find ways to get out of thingz. dont blame urself for anythin he did. trust me i learned that the hard way. just move on and show him that u r off better without him.
2007-02-20 14:58:37 · answer #1 · answered by Layla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time you get in a relationship, start keeping a diary/journal. Maybe you can figure out what is triggering the guys to keep leaving you. Maybe it's you or maybe you just keep picking all the wrong guys. Anthing is possible... think about your interaction.. are you coming off too desperate? Did you do anything to make him lose interest?
Try not coming on too strong. Guys like having space to breathe.
2007-02-20 22:56:46 · answer #2 · answered by WORLD FAMOUS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends how old are you. If you are young than relationships most of the time do not last. Nowadays, people like to explore more and see what is out there. Maybe you should see yourself.
If multiple boyfriends have dumped you, you should self evaluate yourself.
Dont fall in love to quick.
2007-02-20 22:59:14 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweetie...Don't be too hard on yourself. Nor take it against the guy youve been with. If a relationship fails, it only means its not meant to be. What's harder is when you think that the guy is loving you too much only to find out he is cheating behind your back..
The next time you start seeing someone, i suggest you take things easy. This will not only save you from being heartbroken but will enable you to see the true colors of the guy.
Hope i was able to be of help. Take care...
2007-02-20 23:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's unrealistic to think your going to find the man your going to marry when you first start dating. not many people marry their first boyfriend. Enjoy dating and take your time, when you meet a person that is truely compatible with you then you two will be together for years and years. if you expect every boy you meet to propose to you your just going to push them away. Men don't like the idea of commitment, they have to find things in their own time. Be patient.
2007-02-20 23:00:12 · answer #5 · answered by Rhuby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes
2007-02-20 22:57:50 · answer #6 · answered by Vi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to be rude, but you sound a little bit like a shallow pool. Know what I mean? Beyond that, you type like you're ugly. Most of the time it's ugly girls who can't keep a guy. Maybe work out more, or lose some weight?
2007-02-20 22:55:22 · answer #7 · answered by Faint 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People date because they want to get to know you to see if you are "the one."
If you are not, then they will dump you and go on their search again. This doesn't mean you are a bad person, it just means you are not their soul mate.
2007-02-20 22:56:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might have stopped seeing you because you never believe a word he says.
2007-02-20 22:55:45 · answer #9 · answered by Debi in LA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try doing one thing that all women should do, make him food,, give him toys, let him go out when ever he wants ,think its cute that he likes to flirt,let him have the back side when he wants and all should be good oh yea gotta like the smell of our farts thats what keeps us around ......
2007-02-20 22:58:35 · answer #10 · answered by brian g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋