I don't know what it is but my boyfriend has changed recently. Every time we fight he just runs away from the problems and completely ignores me. Not only that even if he's mad about something else that does not have to do with me he always pushes me away. Right now I've gotten to the point where I'm just not calling him at all anymore. Two days ago he went back to his college at connecticut and when I called him to see if he made it safely he just responded with a "yeah, ok, buy" and he didn't even say I love you. I was not at fault for anything, we didn't even fight or nothing. Also, when we do fight he just says the meanest things and disrespects me. He tells me to shut-up and when he knows that he's wrong for something he always brings up what I do wrong instead of admitting that he made a mistake. He makes it seem like what he's doing is payback for the mistakes that I've made. Now that I'm not calling him he probably haven't even considered calling me back.
2007-02-20 14:48:48 · 11 answers · asked by MaoAce7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm just afraid he's tired of me already. He hasn't called me back to even see what was wrong. I just have the feeling that he doesn't even care about me anymore.
2007-02-20 14:50:08 · update #1
WELL, WHAT DOSE HE NEED TO DO THROW A BRICK, THE RELATIONSHIP IS OVER. HE IS DOING EVERYTHING HE CAN TO MAKE YOU SAY IT OVER, CAN'T YOU SEE IT OR YOU DON'T WANT TO SEE IT. HE IS NOT CALLING YOU, GIRL WHEN A MAN LOVE OR WANT A WOMAN NOTHING CAN KEEP HIM FROM CALLING HER. AND HE DON'T WANT TO FIGHT ALL THE TIME . I KNOW YOU DON'T WANT TO HEAR THIS , YOUR FRIEND HAVE SOME ONE AT SCHOOL NOW. ASK TO COME UP OR DOWN FOR THE WEEKEND. I DON'T THINK HE WILL HAVE YOU. JUST GET IT OVER WITH, ASK HIM IF THIS RELATIONSHIP IS OVER BECAUSE HE IS NOT TELLING YOU BUT HE IS SHOWING YOU IT IS. DEEP DOWN YOU KNOW AND AS FAR AS YOU BEING HAPPY AGAIN,OH YES YOU WILL BE VERY HAPPY WHEN YOU LET HIM GO FROM YOUR HEART. YOU WILL MEET SOME ONE BUT DO TAKE CARE OF YOUR HEART. IF YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT I'M SAYING E-MAIL ME AND I WILL TELL YOU. BUT GET OVER HIM SO YOU CAN START ENJOYING LIFE AGAIN. YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO BE SITTING AROUND WORRYING ABOUT HIM AND I DON'T KNOW HIM AND I HATE THE WAY HE TREATS YOU AND YOU SHOULD NOT ALLOW ANY GUY TO EVER TREAT YOU THAT WAY AGAIN. YOU SHOULD NOT CALL HIM ANY MORE, HOWEVER HE WILL CALL YOU. WHEN HE DOSE YOU NEED TO ACT LIKE HE IS NOT THAT IMPORTANT ANY MORE. YOU NEED TO SEE OTHER GUYS I DID NOT SAY HAVE SEX I SAID TO GO OUT TO DINNER AND MOVIES,WALKS AND ART SHOWS AND THE THEATER. DON'T GET SO CAUGHT UP IN THESE GUYS. WHEN HE COME AROUND DON'T SEEM SO DESPERATE. THAT IS WHY THESE GUYS TREAT YOU YOUNG LADIES SO BAD BECAUSE YOU WEAR YOUR FEELINGS ALL THE TIME. STOP DOING THAT. ALWAYS LEAVE THE IMPRESSION THAT I CAN ALWAY MOVE ON AND WIILL BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT THE ONLY MAN. I KNOW YOU HAVE HEARD THIS "YOU MUST NOT KNOW ABOUT ME, I CAN GET ANOTHER MAN IN A MINTUE," I KNOW THAT IS LYRICS FROM A SONG BUT THESE DAYS YOU REALLY HAVE TO HAVE THAT ATTITUDE BABY OR THESE GUY WILL TREAT YOU LIKE **** AND DON'T LET THEM. I WOULD TALK TO MY SISTER THE SAME WAY I'M TALKING TO YOU . HE GOT SOME ONE AND WHEN IT DON'T WORK HE IS GOING TO RUN BACK TO YOU.
2007-02-20 15:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you both are always fighting for one thing or another, .. you said Now he runs away from the problems ...he is saying mean and hurtful things to you and disrespecting you...you may be right , he may be giving you payback ..but whatever the reason...You both don't belong together.
It sounds like was a very unhealthy realationship and it's better you found that out now. I would not bother to sit and wonder if he's thinking about you..and I would not call or see him anymore.
If he does call at some point..YoU can say that YOU don't want him around anymore, you're moving on with your life*)seems like perhaps he has also) Both of you are fed up of the fighting!
You should be Happy in a realtionship, wanting to be with that person, do Fun things together...NOT FIGHT All the time. You need to Live Life GoodLuck*
2007-02-20 14:58:56 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm totally in the same situation. it stinks! i always think the same way...whenever there's a problem i always say to myself "but i didn't even do anything wrong". mine has gone from super overzealous to uninterested...i feel like i'm a burden sometimes. i guess the best way to look at it is, is this the type of personality you enjoy being around? always having to walk on eggshells and anticipate another problem? are you ok with dating someone who doesn't allow you to ever make a mistake, and if you do, not handle it in a caring manner? my guy does the "bring up old stuff" routine. he starts it with, "not to bring up ab&c, but...". which is so stupid, because he IS bringing it up!
basically, it sounds like your guy isn't very caring and understanding, and if those things are important to you in a relationship, you need to find a man who meets your standards.
2007-02-20 14:58:52 · answer #3 · answered by eijan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just forget about him FOR NOW! Deal with it later. Maybe he needs some time... Go and hang out with ur closest girlfriends, have a fantastic time. I mean he isn't the only one that matters to u is he??? Let's hope not!
2007-02-20 14:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by i luv u, tho u broke my heart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your obviously not happy with him. get rid of him and go have some fun, call your girl friends and have a girls night out. Enjoy being single! it's wonderful you can flirt and check out all the men around. Think of your dumping him as your doorway to freedom, being single is not a bad thing.
2007-02-20 14:54:02 · answer #5 · answered by Rhuby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-02 11:43:14 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is free, and probly worth the price. I would say to drop him. I know that if I treated my girlfriend like that she would kick me to the curb. If you leave him, you will get over him. It seems hard, but it can be done.
2007-02-20 15:03:08 · answer #7 · answered by mighty1981mouse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes its hard to get in touch with someone, my gf current had her cell phone stolen, home phone doesnt work and myspace and aim dont work. sometimes time is all that is needed
2007-02-20 14:52:47 · answer #8 · answered by nick s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best advice i can give is to tell u to follow your heart it will never steer u wrong
2007-02-20 14:55:58 · answer #9 · answered by Derrick g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a mean person, you don't need him.
Find a nice guy
2007-02-20 14:56:00 · answer #10 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋