Okay, there's this guy that I think I might be in love with. I think about him all the time, I try to talk to him as much as possible, and I give him stuff. He likes me too, but I told him I wouldnt go out with him until summer. There are a few problems: Hes a grade younger than me, and that would be weird, but we're the same age, becasue I have a summer B-day, and got into school early. All my friends hate him, because hes, well, boyishly gross sometimes, but which teen boys are'nt? But especially my best friend that ive had since kindergarten, says she wont hang out with me as much if i go out with him. Please help me!!!
2007-02-20 14:37:45 · 7 answers · asked by andHallelujah. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just for Aning, im saying that i know im in luv with him, and i only listed a few things that are signs that i like him. he does like me, he tells me im hot, he spends time with me, he looks at me and tells me that im the greatest girl ever. okay aning?
2007-02-20 14:49:27 · update #1
Theres another problem-hes sort of a, how shall i put this, 'Ladies Man' he dates at least 2 girls every week, and then they usually dump him for sum1 else, but thats becuz i wouldnt go out with him during the school year. he never seems interested in the other girls, and he still flirts with me, ???
2007-02-20 14:59:38 · update #2
i understand why you're having a hard time deciding what to do in this situation. the best thing would be to make a list of the pros and cons of going out with him. discussing it later with your friends will also help.
i dont think it really matters that he's a grade younger, especially since he still is the same age as you. it might be a little weird but if you really like him then that wont bother you.
the fact that your friends hate him, including your best friend since kindergarten, is probably the major issue here. i dont think there is really a right or wrong decision, you have to do whats right to you. if you really like him then go for it. your friends would learn to respect your decision. however, maybe he is overly "boyishly gross" and you just dont see it because you like him. just make sure you think things over and do what you want to do.
2007-02-20 14:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by ashesz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I love teenage drama. It's not that it isn't serious, but there's a sense of "non-impending doom" about it. I'm not going to tell you that you are too young to "fall in love", because I don't believe there's an age that's too young. I do believe that if it doesn't work out with him, you will meet many other guys who could sweep you off your feet. I'm going to try some reverse psychology here, and tell you to go out with him. Ditch your friends - you'll make other friends.... I do think it's unfair of your friend to suggest she wouldn't spend as much time with you if you dated him - friends should support one another, even if they don't agree with your decision. Don't take life too seriously right now - but love with everything you have, or don't love at all. And don't do drugs. ; )
2007-02-20 14:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by Spiderman 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do your friends have guys that they go out with and stuff too? If not they might be jealous.
I would talk to your friend and tell her that you don't want to lose her as a friend but you really like this guy and want to give things a chance with him. But make sure you make time for your girls as well. A girls night out atleast once a month.
2007-02-20 14:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by his wife 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your statement \" you think i might be in love with him, is a strong indication or evidence that you just like the idea of being with him but does not necessarily mean that you are in love
being in love is not about you talking to him all the time, or giving him stuff, im surprised why it seems to me youre the only one who is feeling intensely for him , and that your perception is one sided, i mean you are trying so hard and yet i dont feel that he is returning the feeling and that you both understand each others feelings, \
i would even go to the point,that what you have is not that special to leave your bestfriend behind, she is your bestfriends she knows and feels what is best for you,perhaps your friends see that he does nothing good to you, your bestfriend knows who you are and personally i would trust my friend, rather than some random guy whom im not even sure i am in love with, or not even sure if he loves me too
2007-02-20 14:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think if you both like each other then why should you wait? I have the same problem...only he is younger than I am...but I also think that if your best friend is saying that she won't hang out with you more that that's stupid...i think she feels treatened by him and i think you should reassure her that things won't change between the two of you...talk to your bff before you decide to talk to the guy about anthing...i hope things work out for you!
2007-02-20 14:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by dreamingofthosebabyblues 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why dont u go out with him before summer but just keep it a secret between u two so nobody knows.
2007-02-20 14:42:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
DO what you want to do you're friends will get over it and if they don't they aren't very good friends to begin with
2007-02-20 14:43:29 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋