i was with this girl for so long, but shes been drifting further and further away for so long..she lies to me a lot and when i confront her about it she gets mad and leaves me. she said she loves me when she has a good day but other then that she shows me no emotion at all. i cant handle it anymore but i tried breaking away and i just couldnt do it. i love her so much and i thought she was the one for me but i guess i might b wrong. i need help to get away. i feel like dying.... how can something that started off so great turn to this??
2007-02-20 14:30:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When my ex started acting that way, I found out she was cheating on me. My suggestion is: be selfish. Emotional pain now for a short period will be a lot better than the emotional roller coaster she's taking you on for a longer time. Do what's best for yourself, even if it means breaking all ties with her.
2007-02-20 14:38:20 · answer #1 · answered by Steve 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You started out with love and began a relationship, when the love left, all you had left was a crummy relationship. You have to end it, before it gets much worse. If the relatioship really is as bad as you say, you may want to break up over the phone. She'll probably hate you for that but you can avoid those terrible few minutes after you break up. You could also use a text message, but that will make you look like a total jerk.
2007-02-20 22:42:11 · answer #2 · answered by hoboace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sad. Surprisingly, that's how most relationships go. That's why it is best to wait till your are mature to date. You will have to get over this. Men have for the last few thousand years at least. Things will get better. Some day you will look back and thank God you didn't marry some of your early girlfriends. I shure do.
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2007-02-20 22:36:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to accept that your relationship with this girl is over and move on. You say you love her but she obviously doesn't love you if she is treating like this. You owe it to yourself to find someone who will treat you the way that you want to be treated and be happy. Good luck i hope you can break away and find someone nice.
2007-02-20 22:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple: tell her how she's making you feel. Tell her you can't take it anymore. Ask her whether she wants to go on. If she says yes, then tell her to put some effort into the relationship. Wish you luck.
2007-02-21 00:29:10 · answer #5 · answered by Gonzo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need some self-esteem and confidence. Why would you want someone to walk all over you like that?
2007-02-20 22:36:36 · answer #6 · answered by cvhuntaylor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called dating and at times it really sucks but we all go through it so just hang in there.
2007-02-20 22:33:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happens everyday. you need to tell her how you feel and if she dismisses you then you walk away and find yourself someone who will treat you the way you want to be treated
2007-02-20 22:35:24 · answer #8 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey if shes worth it you'll stay but if shes not get away. if you stay there shes going to hurt you so do it for yourself and breakaway from her.
2007-02-20 22:35:45 · answer #9 · answered by gansito 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
man sorry for you. this is going on all over. just start looking.
2007-02-20 22:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋