my boyfrnd wants to "touch" me but i dont think im ready but hes like if u loved me u would go all the way with me and i just dont no if im ready or not im just so confused i need some adice
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please help
2007-02-20 14:26:14 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't have pre-matrial sex! He could touch you but don't be in such a hurry for sex!
2007-02-20 14:29:58 · answer #1 · answered by Trapped in a Box 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend is confused by his raging hormones. If your boyfriend truly loved you, he wouldn't pull that crap about pushing you to do anything. The test of love isn't if you will put out on demand.
Please do not do anything that you don't feel comfortable with or that you don't feel ready for. If he loves you, he won't push you any further. If he doesn't love you, he'll get pissed and leave. It may be a horrible feeling if he does leave, but at least you'll have the truth without doing something you would regret.
2007-02-20 14:39:46 · answer #2 · answered by Gaga Warlock 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion is, when you know you are ready, the you know. And there will be no question in your mind. Right now, you are questioning if you are ready, so that means your not ready. Do what you want to do when YOU are ready. Dont let a boy/man make you think you have to work on his schedule..if you love him. Tell him if he loved you, he will respect that you want to wait until you know you are 100% ready.
2007-02-20 14:30:24 · answer #3 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 09:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it.He does not care,He is out to get what he whats.If he love you he would wait,until you are ready instead of trying to pressure you.If you do it on pressure you will lose him,because he does not have any respect for you.
2007-02-20 14:32:22 · answer #5 · answered by southcoastgirl01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you're obviously not comfortable with him touching you so just say no. He'll try any way he can but it's up to you whether or not it happens.
2007-02-20 14:29:41 · answer #6 · answered by m k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if i would say "player". but i don't think you are ready. and good thing you think first before you act. well any ways take care of your self. you don't want to end up destroying your self.
2007-02-20 14:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by Female 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him, "If you loved me you wouldn't put me into a difficult situation by pressuring me into doing some thing I don't want to do".
2007-02-20 14:30:08 · answer #8 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do anything your pressured to do...do only what your comfortable with....guys can be dogs...I was guilty as a teen too...i suggest ending with him if he is pushy and maybe decide what you want in a relationship...lay definate bounderies in the beginning
2007-02-20 14:31:54 · answer #9 · answered by kevin c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let me say its ok to be confussed . your boyfreind should not push if he loves you !!! he will push you right out of his arms ,,, let him know you are not ready, , if you have doudts they are ther for a reason , so be sure , talk to him and if he still pushes then let him go .....
2007-02-20 14:48:27 · answer #10 · answered by sissy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋