2007-02-20 14:15:43 · 14 answers · asked by Linny. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
there is no set time to wait, you just have to make sure that you want to take this step with him. By ready I mean, did you take the time to get to know him-becase most women have sex but because we can't seperate the physical from the emotional-we tend to get attached. Sex complicates thing so before you start having sex make sure 1. he's into you-not just wanting to have sex and leave 2. he's the type of person that you can trust and 3. that you're having sex because YOU want to-not him or other influences like your friends are doing it.
2007-02-20 14:22:25 · answer #1 · answered by moks 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Very difficult question, My advice is wait until you're ready. If you do it too soon he'll probably end up taking advantage of you. If you wait too long...there is no such thing! He will be patient with you as long as he cares about you. I suggest waiting at least a month at the very least to get to know eachother and see if it's really worth doing.
2007-02-20 14:19:38 · answer #2 · answered by choirboyzryummy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U do comprehend at the same time as u are waiting for sex and desirous to grant it 2some1 u take care of and who cares for u.. by asking this and not at all feeling waiting yet means u are in simple terms no longer waiting yet... do no longer enable ur boyfriend presure u, if he does love u he would wait until eventually ur waiting regardless of if took years... a ideal relationship is in accordance to verbal substitute, honesty, faithfullness, trust and respecting their companions wishs and if ur wishs is to attend then he's not respecting u meaning he does no longer love u sufficient.... maximum adult men say those words to get the sex and in effortless words tell u what u pick to hearken to to get what he needs.... ur on the tablet, it really is reliable yet also no longer reliable sufficient, if ur boyfriend had sex with different females and didnt use probability-free practices then he would have an STI it really is undesirable for ur wellbeing, and if u seize some thing it ought to effected u interior the destiny and would no longer be in a position to have baby/ren coz of no longer conventional he had an STI and u had sex and not using a condom.... do no longer have sex with him until eventually ur waiting and u comprehend for positive and at the same time as u are and if nevertheless round continually use condoms regardless of if ur on the tablet.... ur wellbeing is a lot extra significant then a guy who looks to haven't any appreciate at present for u and in effortless words look to pick sex and presuring u into doing some thing u aint waiting for... my suggestion actualy if he keeps it up, unload him, extra appropriate adult men accessible who will appreciate u and ur wishs best of success to u
2016-12-04 10:55:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on how old you are, and if you've done it before. I'd say wait a while but thats just my opinion. . if you wait a little longer then you can see if he likes you enough to wait, it should feel like the right time, and the right moment so you have no regrets
2007-02-20 14:19:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you get married would be the best option----it will mean more if you've saved yourself until your wedding than not. Besides that, if you stick to your guns and wait, your guy will respect you for it..and if he doesn't, you'll know where you stand and you can kick him to the curb! Value yourself and make it special for your husband...if you've already had sex, make a vow that you're going to wait from here one---I promise, it'll be worth it.
2007-02-20 14:20:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether you feel ready, and want to begin having that kind of relationship, and that kind of fun. The only reason NOT to have sex is being pressured into it if you just don't want to. I would say don't avoid starting just if you're nervous or something, but never let yourself get pushed into it. Otherwise it's your body and your decision!
2007-02-20 14:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by barefoot_always 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why wait...how old are you, if i were you id go on straight away lol with condoms, of course. but keep in mind most countries do not allow sex below the age of 16 or 21..good luck?
2007-02-20 14:21:21 · answer #7 · answered by YneshWasHere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should wait until you are comfortable and have absolute trust in him. dont do it cos u think it will make him like u more or because he wants 2 if ur not ready. its better 2 not do it all if u have doubts and may regret it later.
2007-02-20 14:20:02 · answer #8 · answered by x_lix_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its best to WAIT! You don't have to necessarily wait until marriage, but you have to make sure he does love you, truly, and that he will stay with you. This is VERY important!
2007-02-20 14:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by Carina G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LINDSAY JUST GO AHEAD AND DO THE POOR BOY. you have my permission. but you're 16 and already pregnant with your 2nd kid and you're in your 3rd trimester, so i would hold off a bit.
p.s.
use protection this time?
2007-02-20 14:22:44 · answer #10 · answered by acrosstheuniverse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋