This guy looks at me and trys to stand by me. so i am assuming he likes me. the problem is that we have never said a word to each other. we have only been intrduced to each other. how can i go up to him without being nerves?
and its not easy its easy to say "Just go up to him" its not a just.
2007-02-20 14:13:56 · 6 answers · asked by Female 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look at him and smile. Maybe he'll come over to you.
2007-02-20 14:18:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, if he's trying to stand near u, all ya gotta do is say something random to break the ice. nothin big, but really, u dont wann start blabbering on and on. just start by commenting about something small and see how he reacts. if he's not interested, back off, if he is, then he might talk back or u can keep talking. Really, wat u have to do is say something small that'll get his attention. Lik eif he's in one of ur classes then u could comment on an assignment u got or a hard test u had. or u could make a comment on a band that u know u both like. anything that comes to mind really.
2007-02-20 22:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
When I am nervous about meeting somebody, I take a deep breath and the first thing I say is Hi...lol.. then I explain that I am nervous because I am having to make the first move. (not in those exact words mind you) I actually had to do that with my husband. And you know what? I wouldn't have him today if I hadn't have done that.
2007-02-20 22:21:09 · answer #3 · answered by Boo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Being nervous is just a reaction to feeling that you might be rejected. Have the attitude of if it doesn't work out, oh well, at least I took a risk... Life is a series of risks. If you don't try you have already failed and let yourself down.
2007-02-20 22:19:21 · answer #4 · answered by Golden Smile 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know exactly how you feel. i have the same problem. what i do is, if your friends with one of his friends just talk to him like you always would. build up confidence so you could just walk up to your friend when he's talking to the guy you like and if you and your friend like the same tv show. if the guy you like says somthing like thats a dumb tv show then you should say well then what do you think is a good tv show. if he answers watch the next episode of the tv show he liked. that way the next time your frind and him talk you could bring it up and start joking about it. try and work up to a point where you would be comfterble talking to him when your friend leave your little chat.
2007-02-20 22:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
picture him naked!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-20 22:16:44 · answer #6 · answered by sasavert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋