Lately I have been noticing alot of things about my fiance that i never realy noticed before. Is it just because I am getting married in a few months. I almost feel like he isn't the one for me. I love him but why am I feeling this way.
2007-02-20 14:10:22 · 10 answers · asked by hawaiigonzo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
when in doubt think it out!!! its normal to be nervous about the whole idea of living together and life after the honeymoon is over but if your having doubts about him you need to really explore those i had a lot about my first husband and yes i said first husband but felt i could not back out which was untrue and if i had i would have saved a lot of people a lot of pain and heart ache but with my second husband there was no fear no panic no question i would have married him any time any place any where i just knew and we have been very happy not perfect no one is but solid and happy for 11 years so i wish i would have listen to my inner voice more...good luck
2007-02-20 14:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by peterpansdate 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
yes your nervous but I guess it's normal. I have been considering not marrying my fiance because i hate his mother so much. It's been really crazy with the lack of money and his fat mother trying to control everything. It scares me to think that I will have to put up with this ***** until the day she dies which knowing her will take forever. You said you love him and it's the little things about him you found endearing in the beginning that are now annoying lol, that kind of says that you love him even more, it shows comfort like you really know him. You'll be okay, if this is your biggest problem with your engagement it will work itself out and you guys will be fine.
2007-02-21 02:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by Jersey Style 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you picture you and your finance in the future? Can you handle being with this man for the rest of your life and possibly having children with him? You could be having last minute thoughts but look deep inside do you think the things you have been noticing are things that you can live with for the rest of your life? If you can't maybe you should put the wedding off for a while
2007-02-20 14:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by mlssa_mllr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If ur having doubts I would seriously think it over 1st because marring someone who be the easiest descission you ever make. You should Know you love them and want to be with them forever. It ok to be nervous but I think only you knows the truth and if your even having thoughs that he might not be the one, I think you have alot of thinking ahead of you.
2007-02-20 17:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by hollya707 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to decide if you want to live with the things he is doing. Marriage doesn't change the people, so if there is something that will really bother you, delay the wedding.
2007-02-20 14:22:24 · answer #5 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go with your gut feelings. If you don't believe he is the one for you them tell him before you get married.. You don't want it to end in divorce.. do you? remember divorces can cost more then the actual wedding.
2007-02-23 04:44:21 · answer #6 · answered by hoilday luv 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I would discuss NOW what is bothering you WITH HIM. Get it straight before you say I do, or you may wish you hadn't. Is it "little" things or is it major things? Whatever, it doesn't mater, you need to be discussing this with him and not with this board.
2007-02-20 14:19:59 · answer #7 · answered by Mickey 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably just have cold feet. If you love him the same and are able to compromise with these new found nuances, then I won't worry about it.
2007-02-20 14:17:23 · answer #8 · answered by Answer Girl 2007 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course you love him, but you will notice things that drive you nuts............and ifyou didn't then you wouldn't be normal. All "normal" and "honest" relationships go through these phases. We love them, we find things we don't like, we love them, we find things we don't like..........etc., etc., It's o.k. Nobody's perfect! NOT even you!
2007-02-20 16:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by Christina B 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you should talk to him and maybe you would just have to delay the wadding until you are really sure
2007-02-20 14:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by Maria 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋