After we broke up my ex said we would still be friends. He would still talk to me and hang out with me and our friends. But then he started to avoid me. It's gotten to the point where I'll walk up to our friends and he'll just turn his back on me. He won't even look at me. He dosn't talk to me at all. He won't go to any of the after school clubs we were both in before either, and won't tell his best friend why he decided to quit. We had a pretty mutual break up, he just didn't want to be with me anymore and I didn't plan on staying in a relationship where I wasn't wanted. I never did anything to hurt him. He has told me he dosn't love me anymore and that he never wants to be with me again over e-mails so I know he dosn't have feelings for me. So why can't he just be my friend? I'm not trying to get him back, but it makes things kind of weird when hes avoiding me and I don't want to lose a friend. Maybe I can fix it if I know why hes being like this. Any ideas?
2007-02-20 14:02:11 · 6 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe it just seems hard for him to be your friend, especially if he's met someone else. Give it time and just forget about him for a while.
2007-02-20 14:07:52 · answer #1 · answered by MalGal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the same boat ,Somewhere there is a communication problem Think it is set up w/ HIS friend who is slowly growing on me . She shouldn't be so mean to me though. If she only understood the deal .. HEY>>>> what is the deal Call me ok we'll talk. Don't know how to get in touch? Gotta go to work SEE YA>>>>
2007-02-20 22:14:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might of met someone else and doesnt want you to know. Just give him some space for awhile then send a note saying hey whats up long time no see.
2007-02-20 22:05:55 · answer #3 · answered by D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him space.
And if he still doesn't go back to "normal".. maybe it's best to just let it go. Not all relationships can go back to just being friendship.
2007-02-20 22:07:10 · answer #4 · answered by dragonfly_soup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LET IT GO MAYBE HE JUST SAID IT TO BE NICE. SOMETIMES YOU JUST CAN'T BE FRIENDS. JUST LET IT GO.
2007-02-20 22:06:52 · answer #5 · answered by jazzylust 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do think hes hurt. and you miss him to. so go for it
2007-02-20 22:07:10 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋