So I recently found a long lost friend (a guy) from myspace and I just messaged him saying it was good to see him again, and later he happened to meet my mom (my mom and the guy also know each other) at a coffee shop by coincidence, and they chatted and he left his phone number and email address to my mom to hand it to me. He sent me an email soon after telling me that he doesn't use his myspace, and left me his number. The next day i replied back to his email message and gave him my number because he asked for it. He called me and we talked for about ten minutes catching up, and he kept telling me that we should get some coffee some time, so I said okay. The next few days he text messaged me and I messaged back. And today by coincidence I saw him walking with someone and I texted him that I saw him and that I was sorry that I couldn't stop and say hi. Now he's calling me a stalker??! I'm outraged, I don't know if he's joking or he's crazy? What should I do?
2007-02-20 14:01:05 · 12 answers · asked by ♥♫i♥bloo♫ 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks guys for your answers, and yes I saw him walking with another girl maybe thats why...
2007-02-20 14:08:44 · update #1
I'm just sooo outraged cuz i'm not a stalker. I just wanted a friend who I can talk and laugh with, and he's the one who kept leaving messages, asking me to come over, and sending me happy valentines text messages. I think he's weird. The hell with him!!!!! lol
2007-02-20 14:18:58 · update #2
well he could be joking since you ran into him, i'd give it a few days and don't do anything, then when and if he asks whats wrong just be like well i got the vibe that you were serious about saying i was stalking you or something. or you could just laugh it off and be like yea i am stalking you got a problem? if he is crazy then you can say that your stalking him too, who cares what he thinks he is nuts!
2007-02-20 14:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by sandybottom1017 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he's joking but I'd probably leave him alone and let him be the one to make the next contact just to drill it in that he's not "all that" to me. And don't let yourself believe that he is "all that" until you get to know him well and you can actually determine for yourself whether or not he really is. But yeah, be patient and give it a couple days to let your perspective clear. From what you state, it doesn't seem you did anything wrong. And anyway, he's probably just as nervous getting to know you and trying to figure out what to say and what not to say and still seem cool to you...
2007-02-20 22:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he's joking or maybe you caught him red handed with someother girl? And now he's trying to explain to this girl who you are and saying your just a "stalker" I dont know? call him and find out there are 3 sides to every question. Your side, his side and the truth.
2007-02-20 22:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by David M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well depending on how it was put he was probably being sarcastic hun i dont think he thinks your a stalker he was saying it in a joking sense and you took it serious if he keeps on saying it he may be just crazy hah get over him and onto someone who doesnt think your a stalker well good luck
2007-02-20 22:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by DreamAgain 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah he is crazy! gurl jus leave dat dumb azz alone! U saw him wit his friend or a gurl?if dat was his friend-he was probably showin off his friends that u like him.then he sent u dat stupid sms to show em he dun give a damn bout u(yea right!) and ur just anotha gurl.If dat was a gurl u saw him with, it means he is a playa!! dats it!
2007-02-20 22:07:31 · answer #5 · answered by babebabe_o 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's probably joking don't blow it out of proportion just yet. If he isn't joking then leave him alone beacuse he is a little wierd.
2007-02-20 22:16:38 · answer #6 · answered by no_trabajar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be joking, otherwise it sounds like he might have a girlfriend and she found out about you
2007-02-20 22:05:14 · answer #7 · answered by choirboyzryummy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's just teasing you to get a reaction. As long as he gets reactions from you he will have an excuse to continue talking.
2007-02-20 22:04:03 · answer #8 · answered by dmlk2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask him. if he's the friend you think he is he will tell you. what's the stalker deal? good luck
2007-02-20 22:08:46 · answer #9 · answered by tweed801 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would he's prbably just kidding, but he prabably thinks you stalked him, because you told him you saw him with someone? maybe next time you see him with someone, i don't think he needs to know. ok?
2007-02-20 22:11:53 · answer #10 · answered by x-c runner♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋