i explained a hundred times that nothing ever happened; i never even called the girl. we were broken up at the time i accepted this number. she found the number over two years ago. now, she is saying that if i dont "confess" to what really happened (that i cheated) she is going to leave me. we have a daughter, and i love them both. i want us to be a family, in happiness. but she will only accept one answer from me; that i cheated, followed by an explanation of why. i did not cheat, and this issue is old. im going out of my mind, as we have gone over this dozens of times, always ending in ugly fights and silent treatments. i think that this will be the final confrontation on the matter. she will not believe me and it is ruining our relationship. help!!
2007-02-20 13:46:33 · 9 answers · asked by greatceasarsghost 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump her. Because if you don't, you'll end up marrying her. And I don't know any sane man who'd want to put up with a lifetime of that ****. Seriously. It's psychotic behavior.
Oh, wait. You have a daughter with her.
Well, be a man about it then, and suck it up. That girl's going to need a daddy, and you've volunteered.
2007-02-20 13:52:07 · answer #1 · answered by Guncrazy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for your problem... Yes you are right, Husband and wife should make love....But does she loves you in the first place? if not you cant blame her. Male and female are physically different. To a guy, sex is a necessity but to a lady its not... Im a lady myself and i dont like some one whom i dont love to touch me! Thats normal for any female...Since she is your wife, she has some form of an obligation... Waht i suggest was you discuss this matter with her in a mature/calm manner. Give her a few days to think it over and ask her for her opinion on how to solve this problem... Else, better part nicely and get another wife or suffer for the rest of your life, which is not right....
2016-05-24 00:27:02 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a bad situation. I think that it isn't your fault, shes the one that is having trust issues. You really just need to sit her down and say to her, that you did not cheet and that she should be able to trust that you didnt, and if she can't accept that then she's the one that needs the silent treatments. Good luck this seems like a harddd problem
2007-02-21 03:23:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda reminds me of me and my boy. i quarrel with him a lot for his past mistakes.its just that i am afraid of getting hurt. I know he wont hurt me again and he has proven that he wants to stay but i am just afraid. My dad left my mom cause he cheated.She found numbers and he said it was nothing.About 2 months later he went to live with d girl.I guess thats whats bugging her because she loves u too much and dont wanna loose you. When she yells at you just listen to her then dont tell her nothing out the way.Just prove to her more how much u love her.Write a card with little hearts and stuff.It may seam stupid but she will smile ok.mail me and tell me if i helped pls
2007-02-20 13:57:28 · answer #4 · answered by empressbebet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing that you can tell her is that the past is the past and that you are with her and not the other girl. that should mean something to her. it is going to be something that she is going to have to get over. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-20 13:51:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
rip the number, eat it, get rid of it, somehow in front of her. Tell her how you feel, and say that she was absolutley nothing to you. Tell her that she is your world, and you would do anything for her.
2007-02-20 13:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by Dan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
were girls we are mental, just keep stressing that you didn't and after about two months she may get over it, same thing happend with my man
2007-02-20 13:50:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask her if she found someone? turn it around and see how she likes it.
2007-02-20 13:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by tweed801 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her to let it go.or you are going to take off.
2007-02-20 13:53:17 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋