Ok, there's this one guy and I used to be attracted to him last year. well now I have a bf and I'm really happy with him. I just kind of found out, or figured out, that the other guy has liked me. I don't know for how long, or even if he still does. But before he used to be a jerk with me, he would tease and flirt with me, but always ended up treating me like nothing. So I moved on without thinking twice about it. And now I have 1 class with him. I feel bad, cause I dont think he knew I had a bf until today. He was walking by where I hang out and he saw me holding hands with my bf and of course, enjoying myself. I saw his face, and he looked hurt. I never understood why he treated me the way he did. And I never thought he liked me, but people always suggested he might. He didn't even look at me after that, he just looked down. The question isn't leaving my bf for him, I would NEVER do that. I just feel really really bad, and I dont want anyone being hurt cuz of me...
2007-02-20 13:43:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
...I dont know if he will stop talking to me completely or just be meaner. He's always been pretty childish around me. Chasing me, calling me names...I dont know if that was his way of saying he liked me...or something. I just never knew and I wish I would've never flirted with him last year, cause that might have leaded him on. But I just never expected him to mean it or actually like me. Should I talk to him nicely? Should I give him space and not talk to him at all?
2007-02-20 13:44:02 · update #1
That is Almost exactly as what happened to me!!!
2007-02-20 13:50:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still remain polite to him but I have a pretty good feeling that he still likes you and he probably was hurt when he saw you holding hands. As for his childish ways, depending on your age some guys will still tease you and act like a Jerk. I would not really associate with him too much because I think that it would hurt him even more.
2007-02-20 21:51:50 · answer #2 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you move on and carry on with your relationship that your in right now.I wouldn't worry about it to much,sooner or later he will find someone else to pick on and forget all about you.If he really liked you he would of made a move and done something about it.Maybe once he's over the fact that you have a boyfriend you could try and be friends,and if that's not an option,then just move on and leave it alone,unless he approaches you about it,then you could explain to him what you need to.Good luck
2007-02-20 22:09:50 · answer #3 · answered by glorene b 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if i were you i would say whatever your heart tells you. or you could see how he treats you in the next couple days. like any differently. and if he does talk to him about it. tell him how you feel, ask him how he feels. try to be friends while your with your bf. if you truly like or love your bf stay with him but if not go for him.
2007-02-20 21:52:40 · answer #4 · answered by Melanie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you never had anything going with him anyway its not ur fault that he feels hurt i would worry about the bf you have and not worry to much about him he'll get over it and go on with his life.
2007-02-20 21:49:09 · answer #5 · answered by Robert C 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being nice never hurt anyone
2007-02-20 21:50:53 · answer #6 · answered by KRIS 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He had his chance, so let it go it is his fault!
2007-02-20 21:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋