Is it just fun or are we together?

Question

My "friend" and I have known each other and we ending up sleeping together and it happened..I'm 5 weeks pregnant! It was something that was done intenstionally. 4-5 months ago he just got out of a 2 year relationship--which was hard for him! Now we started sleeping together 6 weeks ago cuz I'm 5 weeks pregnant. Now he still calls me, see's me and still wants to sleep with me? I like him alot obviosly cuz I'm carrying his child. But how do I ask him where we are going from here, cuz I want to be with him!!!

Oh he knows! He's a very quite person and it's hard...i continue to ask him what he is thinking. Deep down I sense he's happy, but under the next breathe I think he's trying to figure out the future. I'm not asking him to marry me..I want him to be involved 100%. I think it scares me to think this way, I have a 6 yr old who doesn't see his father EVER, and I want him to be in this childs life!

I'm not trying to be rude but I came from a broken home and raised only by my mother and I was a virgin until I was 22 and then I was 28 years old when I had my first child and I'll be 35 with my second.

Answer 1

My husband and I were best friends. Then we dated, got married, waited for ten years, had our daughter. He died when she was two.
My advice is talk to him. Let things happen.
Take happiness when it comes.
This could be the best thing in your life
If you are friends, you child will always have two parents
My advice, just enjoy each other, and prepare for the baby
What happens, will happen
Congratulations
Good luck

Answer 2

Does he even know you're pregnant?

You could carry on the relationship, but I'd want to make sure I wasn't just a rebound. Like it or not, he's going to be in your life because it's his child. You need to decide how you're going to handle it. I suggest a nice long heart-to-heart with him. Lay the cards out on the table and take it from there.

Answer 3

Simply that, tell him you're pregnant and that you'd like to be with him if he would like to be with you. Tell him you think you guys could make things work. This way no one gets dinked around.

Answer 4

Well I hope that you get into a church and quit living the way God didn't intend. God made rules for a reason. Not because he is an abusive father, but because He loves us so much. Here are some statistics to show you the importance of trying to stay with him:

Kids from fatherless homes are:
•5 times more likely to commit suicide.
•32 times more likely to run away.
•20 times more likely to have behavioral disorders.
•14 times more likely to commit rape
•9 times more likely to drop out of high school.
•10 times more likely to abuse chemical substances.
•9 times more likely to end up in a state-operated institution.
•20 times more likely to end up in prison.
•"Daughters of single parents are 53% more likely to marry as teenagers, 164% more likely to have a premarital birth, and 92% more likely to dissolve their own marriages.
•Daughters of single parents are 2.1 times more likely to have children during their teenage years than are daughters from intact families.
•Nearly 75% of American children living in single-parent families will experience poverty before they turn 11. Only 20% in two-parent families will experience poverty."
•85% of all children that exhibit behavioral disorders come from fatherless homes
•90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes
•71% of all high school dropouts come from fatherless homes
•75% of all adolescent patients in chemical abuse centers come from fatherless homes
•63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes

God is not an idiot when he made rules for his children. All the rules were not created to be mean, but out of love. Lets get it together America. Raise up Godly children. Society will thank you!