Theres this girl i saw for the very first time and i really like her but the only problem is she is kinda?

Question

taller than me. im 5'8 and my friend who also works with the girl i like, she says shes like 5'10 or 5'11. i dont no if i should even bother trying to get with her.

i asked my friend does she care about height? she said "i dont think she cares" she also said to the girl i like. "some1 has a crush on u (thats me with crush) i asked my friend was she surpirsed? my friend told me she was surpirsed to no and that the girl i like said oh really?

do u think its ok to ask me friend to get info about the girl i like, you no like what type of guy she likes etc.

my friend told me that one time a guy (not ME) tryed to get with the girl i like by sayin like hi i think yur beautiful can i get yur number ? but she was scraed off, didnt give her number and this was a tall good lookin guy! i think shes single cause my friend told me that the girl i like she sent grams for her self on valentins not to feel left out

so is height a really big problem? can u ppl star my question please?

Answer 1

If she doesn't care about height, don't worry. She was probably scard off by the taller guy because he used a boring pick up line. It's kind of sweet but most girls will take such a bold move as being cheesy versus sweet. (At least I would) Just talk to her like you would any of your male friends. After you get to know her (and vice versa) politely ask her out on a date. After knowing you for a while, I doubt she'd notice the height difference and would be focused more on your personality.

Answer 2

Listen man, you can't leave it up to your buddy to handle your business for you. Get to know the girl by maybe dropping by your friends place of employement and talking to her. Don't do anything right away get to know her. It sounds like she is shy so it may take a little time. No need to rush. When you feel the time is right ask her to lunch or coffee.