2007-02-20 13:30:06 · 7 answers · asked by Vishal_India 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Umm...you mean a long-distance relationship? She's in America while you're in India? Whether she's American in America or Canadian in Canada or Italian in Italy...why do you want a long-distance relationship? Why not find a nice Indian girl nearby? Or even a nice Canadian girl in India nearby? Just--a girl nearby???
Anyway, having said as much, I must acknowledge that my darling hubby and I met online. We had precisely that, a long-distance relationship, for several months before meeting in person. We were, however, still a lot closer together, separated by half a continent, not half a world. We weren't looking for a long-distance relationship--heck, neither of us was looking for a relationship at all, it just happened. But once we realized what was happening, we took it pretty cautiously, not sending a lot of photos to each other, not making a lot of phone calls, etc. Virtually all of our communication was written, either in emails or instant messaging. Because our relationship started on a basis completely unlike "dating," neither of us was trying to be anything but ourselves (DO be careful--so many people online are SO phony!), and we probably knew each other far better than most people who meet conventionally, face-to-face, even after they've been together for six months. Once we met in person (after exchanging only 1 photo each, and not fancy glamour shots, either!), it wouldn't have mattered if he limped or had horrible scars, I loved him just for who he is, and he loved me for the same. It's been a wonderful, wonderful, wonderful seven years so far.
Oh yeah, so how to go about it: If you mean other than dating services or chat rooms or whatever, I suggest you get involved (online) in something that truly interests you. Darling hubby and I met in a writers' forum, and quite literally, we formed a sort of "business" relationship around writing before we ever fell in love. Our mutual interest drew us together. Chances are pretty good that you'll meet someone good for you (because you'll have mutual interests) that way.
Good luck, hon!
2007-02-20 14:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by katbyrd41 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you'll have a problem finding an American girlfriend! I worked in a doctor's office with three of the MD's from India. All of them had American wives. Hope this gives you some reassurance that not all American women are against Indians for whatever reason. If women seem hostile, perhaps it is not due to physical characteristics, but more of a religious or cultural difference. Treat women here with kindness and respect, and you should have no problem. Good luck!
2016-05-24 00:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont know do you treat the laides in your native country because i watched the movie Not Without My Daughter and the guys in Iraq and Iran and they treat the ladies pretty bad and they cant escape it so i mean weigh your options first but GoOd LuCk!
2007-02-20 13:36:37 · answer #3 · answered by Tamara Loves Kenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a pretty long distanced relationship eh?
Are you trying to hook up with someone here so you can move here?
2007-02-20 13:41:05 · answer #4 · answered by Ker Plunk 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I guess some girls would, they would probably think it's exotic.
2007-02-20 13:35:19 · answer #5 · answered by Guess who 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
work in a call center n then make ur move
2007-02-20 13:33:56 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Absolutely not. You are day dreaming!
2007-02-20 13:32:33 · answer #7 · answered by purplemollies 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋