Are men scared to approach attractive women?

Question

Not trying to sound conceited or anything, but im really confident and pretty. Are men intimidated by an intelligent attractive woman? It seems like i get hit on more by bisexual women than men.

Answer 1

Nice blokes are.... SO you need to approach them becasue once that the ice has been broken, all is OK....

Good luck

Answer 2

No they are not... Its the fact that a woman is attractive that generally makes them approach them in the first place.

If you are really confident and pretty, then how about you approach the men? If you are getting hit on by bisexual women more it could be something to do with where you go, how you dress (or carry yourself), or the fact that men are checking you out only to see you being hit on by bisexuals and coming to the conclusion that you are a lesbian.

Real men are looking for intelligent attractive women... the few that are out there are are usually taken or gay... so show that initiative and make first contact.

Answer 3

Well, I love beautiful women, but I will tell you half the time, I do get a little shy or nervous I confront them, but when I talk I just hope I'm not making an *** out of myself, and I guess I might think too much, but I don't think I was ever too scared. Really, no one should be affraid to approach anyone.

However, what I do, while every guy is eye F*cking her or whatever they are doing, I don't look at her, if we catch eyes I just look away and not seem interested in her...<---Thats how you should do it, act like you don't care and maybe just maybe she'll end up coming over to you

Answer 4

some girls can be too good looking yes. guys will look at the girl and think that girl could walk up to any man and have him . so they think its pointless no matter how good they treat you some other guy with more money and better looks will come along and you will run off with him . see incredible looks are a kind of power . we know that absolute power corrupts absolutly so it follows the more hot she is the more corrupt she will be.
if you want to get guys and your one of the 10's or 13's then you have to start the talks with the guys or even ask them out .
i know this all seems nuts but we all know there is a limit to what size fish we can catch. you sound like one that is bigger then the line will take.
see the thing is that its a fact hot girls marry hot rich guys . rich people really are better looking on average.
hey since your so good looking or you think you are send me a pic and i will write back and give you a personal review . sounds fun and it might help you . [e-mail] . and yes i am a guy this is a scottish name.

Answer 5

Yes, this a good question that I must answer. I agree for the simple fact that some of us are afraid of rejection. So when we she an attractive woman. We tell ourselves, well I know I can get her because she look conceited and may not want to talk. But for me a try my hand, and speak anyway to see the outcome. But I must say that I would love to have an attractive woman who is intelligent and has goals. I may can learn many things from her. You never know. So if you attractive women see me in the streets of Washington DC don't be afraid to speak. ;)

Answer 6

First of all I value intelligence, confidence and integrity in a woman more than anything; In fact there's nothing more alluring about a woman than if she has her own mind. With all due respect to the female gender, spineless women who cave under the pressures and manipulations of their family and friends rather than competently making their own decisions... are a dime-a-dozen. Believe me when I tell you that no man in his right mind will ever see intelligence in a woman, as a bad thing.

As for being intimidated by attractive women, it would be more accurate to say men are untrusting of attractive women, rather than intimidated by them. The greater the intensity of physical attractiveness, the greater the lack is of true *mental* allure and I'll tell you why: Very attractive women simply aren't good candidates for love interests.

Men are instinctively selfish, we want you all to ourself and to be the center of your world as much as possible; It's simply the way God made us and any man who denies it is a liar or else grossly out of touch with himself and what he truly wants. Unfortunately, most of us guys know through our experiences that the more attractive a woman is, the less likely she'll be to take us seriously and that truly is our greatest need.

The world isn't exactly hustling and bustling with beautiful women who are eager to give themselves heart and soul to a man, there really is some truth to the saying that pretty girls just want to have fun; Or at least this is what life continues to teach us poor love-hungry guys.

Women of average or even below average attractiveness tend to put men a little more at ease because we feel there is more of a chance we'll be taken seriously as individuals, we HATE to feel like we're viewed as the steretypical "weird stalker guy waiting to happen", and more than a few beautiful women have made us feel like that, so... we've learned not to trip over ourselves too often with approaching beautiful women.

I could probably write about this subject a lot more in depth because really it's an interesting topic that I do feel in touch with, but rather than talk your ear off I'll simplify everything with these last comments: Yes, men do fantasize about beautiful women falling in love with us... Keyword: Fantasize. Why? Because life has taught us in a thousand various ways that a fantasy is the closest thing to being real that a beautiful woman will ever be.

More and more men today are finding that they can have more compatible relationships with older women who don't fit the typical mold of a young hottie... The simple reason for this is that those young hottie's usually always tend to prioritize their lives around any and everything but the men who love them with all their heart and soul, thus leaving those men lonely and devastated in the end.

Men aren't the simple sex-starved creatures they're steretyped to be, there's actually a complexity to the male psyche that would really surprise you girls. Good luck ;)

Answer 7

You know what it is, men are definately afraid of rejection so if a confident beautiful woman is staring at them with the "come talk to me" look they automatically think either, well she's definately taken, or why would she be interested in me she can have whomever she wants. Guys have low self asteems when a woman is attractive and smart , b/c in thier eyes they feel as though the woman can take care of her self what does she need him for. So sometimes the girl has to make the move.

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Answer 9

I can answer this because I have a wife that's intelligent and beautiful:) I didn't have a problem approaching my wife or any other beautiful, intelligent women before her:) However, I guess I can see that some men might have a problem with being intimidated. Sure.
To your and my wife's credit, though, those men who won't approach you because of your beauty and intelligence lack depth and you don't need them anyway;)

Answer 10

In general? Yes, it sounds like you could be intimidating to men if they have a slightly weak self esteem. Even if the self esteem is healthy, men fear rejection. Maybe it isn't that at all though, perhaps you come off as over confident, which is normally a turn off for anyone.
If you see someone you think you may like, why not ask him out? : )

Answer 11

It's all about confidence. I've seen "pretty" men turned down by attracted ladies and I've seen "ugly" men get the lady. It's not so much what you bring to the table with the looks but what you serve with them.

No confidence = scared.