I've never had a one-night stand, but have been close many times. I usually back out, though, because that's not me, but I have begun to more seriously consider it.
How many of you on here have had them, how was the following morning and was there any remorse afterwards, or was it just chalked up to something fun and in the moment?
2007-02-20 13:11:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
before i was married or met my husband i did have one and it was fine we were safe and we both understood what it was the next morning we gave a little hug and thank yous and he left but nothing weird so as long as you protect your self and are honest about what your looking for just a one night thing not a relationship and are completely respectful then it should be OK and it may be wise to make sure its not a close friend unless your both know what you want and are OK with it
2007-02-20 13:22:02 · answer #1 · answered by peterpansdate 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only guilt comes in when you realized it was done while you were intoxicated , drugged up , and especially if it was done without protection. but if its someone that makes you feel like its more than just getting some then it doesnt feel as strange , well doing with someone you know actually helps a little bit. well i would say if its not you then dont do it cause there is a reason why you feel some what turned off by it cause quiete frankly if and when you do it you will probably regret it.. ok think smart and make the best decision that right for you!! well sober of course..
2007-02-20 13:22:07 · answer #2 · answered by primet21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeppers, been there and done that. I will tell you that at the exact moment - it was exciting for me - knowing that there were no strings attached! I remained friends with him after but things were never really the same. Looking back, yes I felt shame and remorse. I felt as if I had sold myself short - that I deserved different. All I can say is think about it long and hard first - make sure you are not settling or selling yourself short.
2007-02-20 13:16:12 · answer #3 · answered by MS L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
don't sense to blame as what's performed is performed, and it appears like she became in simple terms as up for sex as you've been! some recommendations: *Lie and tell her you've an interest in some different person. *tell the reality "i do not pick to harm you yet I in simple terms wanted quick a fling and not at all some thing extra" *reply some circumstances in a delightful way then slowly area the contact out telling her you're busy etc. *ignore concerning the calls and texts, she'll quickly get the hint! Or a blend of all the above! Or: *Have her as a F@*ok chum, see you later as you both comprehend the position you stand....this would nicely be complicated notwithstanding! i became in an similar subject and could admit I lied, he then continued with the contact, so interior the top I left out him....thoughts you it became truly ordinary as we lived so a recommendations aside! reliable success, you sound like a tremendous guy.
2016-12-04 10:51:44 · answer #4 · answered by endicott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never had a one nighter. I tried to once, but it took me a whole week to get rid of him. After that it kind of soured me on the experience.
2007-02-20 13:22:23 · answer #5 · answered by sexmagnet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been there- there was no remorse. it was fun. just make sure you use protection and do it sober so you both know what you are doing
2007-02-20 13:15:23 · answer #6 · answered by DIVA_00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep in mind that it is only a one night stand. you aren't there to fall in love.
neither is she dude.
just have fun and enjoy yourself.
2007-02-20 13:16:05 · answer #7 · answered by duncabby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends on your maturity level......what can you handle?
2007-02-20 14:39:25 · answer #8 · answered by Caesar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never did :I
2007-02-20 13:16:51 · answer #9 · answered by ceec 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋