I know it is petty, and it has been almost 2 years since I broke up with this guy. But we went out for almost 4 years, and I loved him dearly, and he broke up with me. Since then, I've dated here and there but havent ever really found someone like him. Compounded by this is the fact that my 2 best friends in the world are HIS best friends, which does not bode well for the fact that I can't just "forget" about him. So I come to find out through Myspace that he has been dating a girl who is quite pretty. Rather than be happy for him and just forget about it, it consumes me. I'd like to think I have a good grip on reality, but it is so weird. I unequivocally cannot help but be bothered by it. I hate it, and I want to not care. I am happy for him, to an extent, but I am bothered by the fact that she may be prettier/better looking than me. Who cares if I am successful and have a great life. I mean, I know it sounds ridiculous, but I can't stop comparing. Tell me I'm a fool...
2007-02-20 13:11:29 · 4 answers · asked by eands10 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes your a fool.you have so much going for you but you waste your energy on envy and the past.if you focus on yourself,and your goals you would say wow why in the hell would someone leave me.i suggest the website 43things.com ,make goals and accomplish them.btw tell me your account when you make one ill cheer your goals
2007-02-20 13:19:32 · answer #1 · answered by blank 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, this is a toughie! You say it's been 2 years and you still feel something for him? The truth is no matter what he will always hold a special place in your heart simply because you were with him for 4 years. You will never forget about him, but you can move on. I know it's hard to do but try not to compare the guys you date to him, everyone has thier own styles and personalities. I don't know if he was your true love, but the way I have always seen it is that you have your first love and you have your true love. Your first love you will never forget, but your true love you will spend your future with.
2007-02-20 21:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by no_trabajar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can look at it that way if you like, or you can take it that he is trying to replace the whole you left in his life. Suppose you were a hard act to follow, so he only pursues the hotest chicks in a vain attempt to fill that void. . MAYBE, you should try reconciliation , I sure am detecting a lot more than residual emotions going on here, sounds to me like you still love him.
2007-02-20 21:33:15 · answer #3 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU ARE A FOOL.....OK?
2007-02-20 21:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by Caesar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋