I finally asked him (through a text) if he has a chick because I thought it was weird how he never calls and only texts me. He said that no he doesn't have a girl but that's just how he talks to his friends simply because he feels he can talk better that way. Every month he uses about 9000 texts(isn't that ridiculous?) He also said he gets nervous on the phone like he has with me on the few times we have spoken on the phone. I mean we have hung out a few times and it's never awkward we get along super awesome and on the phone too we just talk and talk, but i do notice that on the phone and in person he does seem jittery at first, but once he gets comfortable around me he is fine. He's the one who wanted to know me (he did it through his friend at that, and even she told me he was shy). I don't get how a dude can be so shy to only text me every night, hardly ever asks me to hang out, and never calls. What's up with him if he doesn't have a girlfriend, can he really be that shy?
2007-02-20 13:04:49 · 6 answers · asked by no_trabajar 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why do you bother with children, how bout a real man who confronts his women and talks to them face-to-face insteada hiding behind a stupid *** cellphone.
2007-02-20 13:07:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are just really into texts. I have met a few personally. One of my friends doesn't like to talk on the phone so whenever a phone is used as communication, it's by text. It's probably just a preference thing with your guy friend. But, it wouldn't hurt to see if he lets you come to his place or something like that so you can validate if he's dating someone or not.
2007-02-20 13:09:27 · answer #2 · answered by brwnbarbie24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have to figure that texting is very impersonal and convieniant if you dont want to have to stop what you are doing to talk to somone. It seems to me like the guy has issues with with confidence. My advice to you would be to call him more often and see how he responds.. let him know that you would rather talk to him on the phone then text him because you can say things 100 times faster then texting. If he doesnt want to make the effort to call you then it shows that he really isnt ready for more then just little kid stuff like writing notes with "Do U like me?.. circle Y or N"
2007-02-20 13:15:59 · answer #3 · answered by Get Money 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 10:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by endicott 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shut off your cellphone. Talk to real people.
2007-02-20 13:07:47 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can challenge him to step it up a notch by blocking all his email, so he will have to use other methods to communicate with you.
2007-02-20 13:21:47 · answer #6 · answered by al b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋