So. theres this girl that i like but were kinda just good friends right now. i dont know if she would think of me as more than a friend. But i cant hide my feelings much longer. What should i do?
2007-02-20 13:02:28 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
be honest with yourself...by building up the strength and confident to tell her how u feel and at the same time try to find out what she is feeling for you...it might be a match but u need to take that chance in order to find out.... because doing nothing about this won't get you anywhere. so good luck.
2007-02-20 13:06:04 · answer #1 · answered by La'Grange 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I think you should actually try to find out if she likes you or not as more then just a friend...try observing her behavior when she's around you and with other people...see if she gives you some hints of her interest in you. Second if she does then just ask her or tell her your feelings toward her. Third hope for the best...good luck with that!
2007-02-20 13:11:07 · answer #2 · answered by ceec 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you have to come out with it slowly, Dont just blurt it out, cause then there is that risk of scaring her. Just say this after you have started talking with her, and made her comfortable with talking with you, and just say that something like this.
"I have something that I need to tell you....but I need to know that what I say wont ruin our friendship. It is hard for me to talk about it, but I cant hold it in any longer. I have a little crush on you, I dont know how to feel about this, but this is how I feel. Then let her think about it for a moment, then ask her if she want you to let her think over what has happen. and see how things go from there
2007-02-20 13:12:18 · answer #3 · answered by I am Noodles! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her but not over bearing. A girl loves to know when a guy is interested. Just remember however that this could
actually ruin your friendship if you two do start seeing each other
and things don't work out...Is she a good enough friend that you
would want to take that chance?????
2007-02-20 13:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by Karen K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her know how you feel, because there's always that chance that she feels the same way as you. But as a girl, I feel that it is the mans job to ask the girl! I know I like a man who is confident in himself, so go and tell her!! Good luck with everything!!
2007-02-20 13:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my friend you got to choise here one is to tell her how you feel about her and tell her every thing and without keeping a sercat and never accept "NO" for an aswer which is well tell her that you would do any thing to be with her and all that is if you are ready for it but if you are not ready you better forget about saying any thing cause afther all it is much better having her as a friend than to loss her at all?
2007-02-20 13:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by abeshawiwe!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her!!
The worst that can happen is that she doesn't feel the same, but the alternative is that she feels the same and is having the same dilemma that you are. Telling her how you feel could give things the push to a happy life together. Good luck
2007-02-20 13:07:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have you two known each other and been friends? if you guys have known each other for a long time. bro don't take it any further then friends. i know i have had that happen. this girl i still call a friend we were Friends a long time before we ended up hooking up but. it was a mistake i wish i could take back.good luck bro.
2007-02-20 13:09:06 · answer #8 · answered by djjojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU CANT HIDE IT ANY LONGER THEN LET IT ALL OUT TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL START FLIRTING WITH HER AND SEE IF SHE FLIRTS BACK EVEN IF SHE DOESNT YOU MIGHT AS WELL GIVE IT A SHOT AND I KNOW YOURRE PROBABLY SCARED THAT YOU WONT BE HER FRIEND ANYMORE IF SHE SAYS NO BUT THAT ISNT TRUE IT WILL JUST BE ALITTLE AKWARD FOR AWHILE BUT YALL WILL GET OVER IT
2007-02-20 13:06:14 · answer #9 · answered by will 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start talking to her more and get to be better friends. Then spend more time together to see if she likes you in that way. If she likes you back then you can ask her out if she dosen't then you wouln't have embarresed yourself by asking her if she liked when she really didn't. Good luck!
2007-02-20 13:07:50 · answer #10 · answered by twinkles_starlight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋