im trying to get a girl that i like a lot to notice me more in school. she barely knows me. i have 2 classes with her. i just really need help so that we can get to know each other better. im also kind of shy about talking to girls. 1. i get nervous when im by her because i have a crush on her. 2. she doesnt know me too well. any suggestions. im in high school by the way. 11th grade
2007-02-20 12:58:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Help carry her books for her she will always remember that.
2007-02-20 13:08:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only way to get noticed is to put yourself out there. I mean I guess you could play a sport or act like an idiot in class but what you should do is say hello and smile. Then go up to her the next day and smile again and say hello. By the third day smile again and makes some small convo and just be yourself. Shyness is tough but in order to beat you have just Go for it. I mean you are probably thinking..."I can't do this". Yes you can. If it doesn't work out man...your still young. You haven't been to college yet or experienced life yet. If she says no...and thats the worst thing that happens in your life. Your one lucky guy. Rejection is part of the game. Its your job to say F it. Good luck buddy. You will be fine. Just have a confidence. You can never go wrong with that. Just ask any girl.
2016-05-24 00:21:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, get over the shyness. No one is ever going to blow your horn louder than you will, so believe in yourself. Now, survey your characteristics. What are your strengths, and also your weaknesses? You need to emphasize your strengths, and downplay or avoid your weaknesses. Make a few changes in your appearance that will be noticed. Be classy, not cliche'. Maybe change your hairstyle. Try a new Cologne. Maybe Lagersfield. Don't overdo it though. What are some things you enjoy doing, that she could join you in doing? What is fun to her? You need to start noticing her, and mention it. Try to be where she is. Offer her rides home or such.
Talking is not so difficult if you keep it simple and natural. Pay her compliments. That should be easy. What do you like about her? Your hair looks nice today, or I like that blouse on you, Even better, You make that blouse look good. Talk about things you are familiar with. try to make it interesting, Funny is usually good, but not corny. Talk about things you have in common. Talk about things that are happening around you. Story telling is usually good. (True stories, best if about you, or maybe a friend.) Don't be fake. be yourself, but show her your best side. Stand tall.
Oh, and don't forget to have fun. Nothing more attractive than fun people.
2007-02-20 13:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by TopCatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just breathe for starters. Then when you see her, tell her hi. Talk to her. Thats the only way we will notice you. You need to just be comfortable with yourself. after talking to her, and you feel comfortable ask her out. Girls love confidence, so work on that. Jes
2007-02-20 13:01:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
11th grade you may never see her again once you leave high i suggest if you care alot 4 her talk to her, forget you like her when u talk so ur not as nervous before its to late
2007-02-20 13:05:17 · answer #5 · answered by joeymooch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just need to talk to her. ask her about a homework problem or whatever and see if the conversation develops. then try to see if you have anything in common. try to remember something from the conversation next time you talk to her, and bring it up to show that you remembered and you care. maintain eye contact, and try to play it so eventually she approaches you to talk.
2007-02-20 13:02:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you should do something to conquer a fear you have, like you have a fear of heights try going on a high roller coaster ride or something that helps you conquer that fear then try talking yo her, because after doing that you probably wouldn't be as shy to talk to her and when you do talk to her just be yourself............
2007-02-20 13:06:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pray to the Lord son.
2007-02-20 13:00:26 · answer #8 · answered by Radish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy an extra large cucumber, put it in your pants, and I'll guarantee she'll notice you. Well at least she'll notice part of you.
2007-02-20 13:01:23 · answer #9 · answered by Freddie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be extra seet like make sure you hold the door open for her, just dont be an asshole like a lot of junior guys...
2007-02-20 13:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by lynea_5392 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋