She is lesbian and i am bi. I need help because this could change our relationship but we are both horny and have already made-out. And also.. i have never had sex with a women before sooo what do i do?? (i know you use dildos but i don't have a penis so i don't know how hard or w.e)
2007-02-20 12:51:07 · 21 answers · asked by 8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
uhm. rub? lol.
this is a weird question...
weirdest question i have answered!
2007-02-20 12:53:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
If you have already made out and there was no weirdness why would there be if you have sex. Of course it will change your relationship. I say just do it and go with the flow you will learn as you go how to have sex. Just don't be scared and it will happen naturally.
2007-02-20 20:58:23 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Take this opportunity to swear off the same sex. Should you get married and have kids, this lifestyle will haunt you to your grave. I know a couple where the wife slept with women for a couple years before settling down and marrying a man. Talk about screwed up and a tormented life, marriage, and kids! Don't put yourself through this. Make a choice for yourself and your future family.
2007-02-20 20:57:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
You need to figure out if you'd rather have her just as a friend or g/f. I suppose some people can manage having a friend with whom you just have sex and no strings attached but I think realistically that doesn't usually work out... Um there is also oral sex and well you have fingers.. =\
2007-02-20 20:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by d_magical_s_sweetness 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Nooooo
2007-02-20 20:53:47 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 3⤊ 3⤋
if she is a friend but you think things may be weird afterwards then i wouldnt risk it...i would look at how things have been since the make out thing if they are weird now i wouldnt risk my friendship over hormones....
2007-02-20 20:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by lovinlover 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Go for it! Tell her the truth, then follow her lead. She'll tell you all you need to know, so relax and get friendly with her.
2007-02-20 20:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 2⤊ 2⤋
um ok well for me i can say i think girls are hot but have no romantic feelings for them...so if i messed around no feelings of mine would b hurt .maybe you both are like that.otherwise just dont do it.remember no feelings involved -say tht to her
2007-02-20 20:55:03 · answer #8 · answered by blank 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
of course you should... it will be good for both of you.. try it you' like it... as you have already made out... you need to take it to the next level... have fun... explore... go for it..
2007-02-20 20:55:01 · answer #9 · answered by fred Flintstone 5 · 2⤊ 3⤋
try it maybe it will change for a better relationship
2007-02-20 20:56:34 · answer #10 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋