i dated her in 7th grade and eavery thing was good. we broke up. in the 9th grade she moved to new mexico and we started talking agian and i whated a long distance relationship but she did not. that was fine. NOT anyways we moved back and now she like this guy in new mexico that has took some of her friend virgenity. and see does not show any interest in me. she is the one she is the love of my life. and i dont know what to do. date her. i dont even know how to tell her how i fell. plz if u can help me please
2007-02-20 12:47:26 · 13 answers · asked by willywonkakindaguy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok brother this is what you should do ...it works everytime for me ..and maybe it will help you ...write a letter..write it as long as you want and dont hold back ....put all your feelings and even your heart into that letter.....and then mail it to her....after that you let her go ...if the letter touched her then she will come to you ...and if it didnt ....at least you now know...and you are free to move on ...
2007-02-20 12:52:11 · answer #1 · answered by kingjoe_357 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
her friends virginity or is she a "friendly" virgin, it's unclear what you're saying. if the former, why do you want her if she's into someone that doesn't treat her friend right? perhaps her friend was into it and turned her onto it talking about what a great time they had; in any event that seems a bit disturbing. if the later, it sounds like she's holding onto her virginity and using it to bait guys and get attention from them, but has no intentions of going there with them. if so he's a sucker for what you were two years ago, if so you just want her because it's an opportunity lost and you're missing that because you're dealing with girls who are more experienced. move on, quite honestly, in 7th grade what are you like 12, 13, the feelings are real but the decisions can't stick; she probably wasn't ready for a long distance relationship, in any event. if she wants to be friendly, let her do that and find someone who is serious about being with you ...
2007-02-20 12:57:36 · answer #2 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she doesn't show any interest in you, how are you going to date her? If the two of you are friends, you should let this ride for a while. It may be just an infatuation with the other guy and she will get over it and come back your way. Just try to be her friend and show her you care about her that way for now. If she comes back your direction, it was meant to be. If not, you will find the love of your life, because she wasn't it. Good luck!
2007-02-20 12:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by kris 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's an answer from a mother of a guy about your age. That puppy love will pass. You are a little young to be calling girls "The One". In other words, grow up some more...then find "The One" and don't be so quick at saying they are "The One". Give it time...and see what happens first. The very instant this girl moved away was your ticket to date someone else...take your cue:)
2007-02-20 12:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by cherokeemaydyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave her before you get even more attached and then it will be harder. Trust me, leave her now. Don't make the mistake most of us make by waiting around hoping they will love us instead. There will be a great girl out there for you even if it takes months or maybe even years. When it happens, it will all be worth it. I know you're probably like blah, blah, whatever. I did the same. Good luck!
2007-02-20 12:52:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is not interested in you, then I doubt you'll be able to get a date with her, hunny.
I'm so sorry that things have not worked out for you. But, over the years she has lost interest in you and moved on and now it's time for you to move on.
Try to date other girls. I bet you a dollar that you'll find someone else and feel love again!
There are plenty of places to meet girls (arcade, museum, library, grocery store, coffee shoppe, book store, Church, wal mart). You just need to start looking and searching and try to find someone else, cause obviously you don't mean as much to her as she means to you and that is torture, hunny! STOP hurting yourself by pining over her, and please move on and be happy!! :-)
Good Luck hunny.
2007-02-20 12:54:57 · answer #6 · answered by Daft One 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her man. She said she doesn't want a long distance relationship and she wants one with a guy in New Mexico. Your better off leaving her. Dont worry, you'll find a girl twice as better.
2007-02-20 12:52:42 · answer #7 · answered by Tyler 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you are setting your heart up for a fall. I would suggest backing off and observing her character and decision making. I think that other guy has his hooks in her heart, and she will chase him, even though he is no good. She needs to see your heart, and you need to keep from being hurt.
This sounds like something that will take time to straigten out. You need to see what kind of person she is turning out to be, and she needs to see the good man in you. That will take time. Be patient, but keep your distance for a while.
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2007-02-20 12:54:36 · answer #8 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let her go men why would u wanna date some1 that has feelings for some1 eles u can be friends with her if u want but as far as dating her or taking it into a serious relationship u should just forget about it and move on and found some1 that will show there feelings for you and only you good luck
2007-02-20 12:53:15 · answer #9 · answered by AMBG 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, they best thing I can tell you, is go for it! Take risks! My opinion... the reason of life is to obviously live-live happily, healthy, and fully. If you don't listen to your heart, you'll just be asking yourself everyday, "What would've happened if I just told her how I felt? Would she have said yes?" So basically, what I'm trying to say is this, take the chance. One, you'll get it off your chest, secondly, you won't be questioning yourself the worst question that can be asked by your worst enemy at times-your mind. "What if... ?" Go for it bud, that's all I can say. Hope it all goes well.
2007-02-20 12:54:43 · answer #10 · answered by miles_of_memories 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋