Ok i have been dating a black guy for about 4 months and I was thinkn of what i wanted in my life. i was thinkin of how i want a lil girl with blonde wavy hair and blue eyes. and we all kno that aint gonna happen when im dating him. but i can see us still together for a few more months or maybe a year. but i dont want to hurt him and i dont kno what to do. I need anwsers. help!
2007-02-20 12:40:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
adoption is always an option.
2007-02-20 12:42:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should grow up and stop being silly. Children are a mixture of their parents and wanting a blonde girl with blue eyes is just shallow. I have a blonde haired blue eyed daughter but all i wanted was a healthy baby. As for the guy if you don't love him end it now before you hurt him even more.
2007-02-20 12:47:19 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
look first thing it sounds like your kind of have a problem with the color of a different race. You are not yet ready for a relationship with anyone if you cant do anything but look at the color of the guy. It should not matter if your child has blonde hair and blue eyes your suppose to love your child regardless and not because of your childs looks. Its not garenteed that if you sleep with another white guy that your child is going to look like you want it to. I advise you to look past the problem you have with that before you end up passing up a perfect match.
2007-02-20 12:52:06 · answer #3 · answered by ddcwalker 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you sound really young so the chances are that you wont end up staying with this guy forever. Just keep dating him while it's fun and don't worry about babies right now. Also, as you get older, you'll realize that your baby's hair & eye color doesn't matter - only a healty baby matters.
2007-02-20 12:54:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love this guy, than you should look beyond that. You should also love any child that you two bring to life. If your so fixated on having that exact child, which is not a perfect child if that's what your going for by the way, all of them are perfect, than maybe you should adopt. But seirously, grow up.
2007-02-20 12:43:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because you are dating a guy doesn't mean you have to have his kid... most relationships break up for other reasons before they get to that part.
Just have fun with the relationship while it lasts and play it safe. If it doesn't work out it was probably for the best, and if it DOES, then I guarantee you won't be worried what your children look like.
2007-02-20 12:43:12 · answer #6 · answered by dmlk2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's sound to me that you are not happy with him at all.You like him for a Friend more than a b/f.You might have to hurt him so try and let go know before you get into it more deeper.
2007-02-20 12:44:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should just live and you shouldn't really care about that if you guys last long enough that you guys decide to have kids then that's when you should really think about it......do you want to have his child with the man you love (if you love him) or a child you want with a guy that you might not really care for but jus like him because he will let your child look like the way you want.......idk but i think you should just take it day by day and deal with it when it comes up.
2007-02-20 12:51:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cant be picky with your kids. If its true love, dont give up on him. If youre young you guys probally wont have kids together anyways.
2007-02-20 12:43:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i wish my kid would come out with green eyes instead of brown but i cant change that. youll love it no matter what thats just something youd like to get. try not to be so picky, if hes good stick to him. theres not that many good guys out there.
2007-02-20 12:45:42 · answer #10 · answered by Laura J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you really love him and you want to have kids you should not care of how your children look as long as you love your children and that guy.
2007-02-20 12:44:22 · answer #11 · answered by a_vergales 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋