I'm 15 years old, and I'm starting to realize I have major commitment issues. I've quit the dance team, quit dance lessons, quit piano, quit girl scouts, quit all clubs I've been in, quit on a few of my friendships, and most of all, when a guy I like tells me that he likes me back, I don't like him anymore, like I'm scared to make a commitment.
How can I fix this?
I've had atleast 3 guys like me this year, but because of that, I didn't like them, and it was almost like I felt like I was too good for them, even though I had a huge crush on all of them
What can I do?
2007-02-20 12:39:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Um, well you are 15 there is plenty of life ahead of you so just do your school work, get into college and eventually this should change. You will find activities and men you are truly passionate about and roll with it...
2007-02-20 12:42:35 · answer #1 · answered by JP 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With all the quiting of clubs and such it could be that you lost interest in the preteen girl things that you once loved. As far as the guy thing could be a combo of a few things such as parently divorce or you really only like what you can't have and in that case at some point us girls all go through it. Or the fact that you may like a guy but really arent interested in dating just one or at all. Don't rush it you have a life ahead of you. If the pattern continues talk to a counselor. There could be deeper issues.
2007-02-20 20:49:01 · answer #2 · answered by easojo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are normal. Stay young as long as you can. Fly a kite, jump rope....... do anything except worry about it. Try to find yourself first.
2007-02-20 20:46:52 · answer #3 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like those boys you have to tell them how you feel.. if you know your not ready for an commitment talk to them and let them know
2007-02-20 20:44:39 · answer #4 · answered by Rohanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was like that. i think you might be kinda shy and kinda scared maybe to be in a relationship. im just sayin that cause i used to be that way.
2007-02-20 20:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by Laura J 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get your head out of the clouds and get a guy and have some fun, dont think about it, lifes short!
2007-02-20 20:43:06 · answer #6 · answered by alaskaowned 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋