Sorry guys but I just needed an outlet. Ive let my guard down BIG TIME, & definately fell for the wrong person.
Why do they build you up only just to let you down? Part of me feels I should have seen this coming, god knows Ive been given warning bells! But no, stubborn me thought he was serious. I thought I could handle it someone like him
& who could blame me? He was so attentative, charming, interested, full of life, exciting, spontaneous, daring...his actions actually spoke louder than words, when he showed an open and honest side. When he flaunts you to friends & collegues as his woman.
But theres a flaw. An ex gf, who doesnt seem to be so ex at times.
Which part hurts the most? the fact the it seems other people knew his antics....the shame at crying when I confronted him..the fact that I want to call him, believe him!..the way he simply put our short time together down as "nothing serious"...that I was a temporary part in some twisted play...Well thanks putting up with me
2007-02-20 12:39:06 · 8 answers · asked by muylindas 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There is nothing I can really say to make the pain go away or make it any better but I understand the pain you are gong through. People like him will get what is coming one day. (what goes around comes around--I truly believe that)
You have to somehow stop thinking about what happened and what could have happened and what should have happened. (And how bad it felt.) You have to think of what is now and remember that day by day it will improve. (not noticeable at first but it is) Every day that goes by brings you closer to feeling better though you may not know it.
Forget him and his good attributes, forget his bad parts too. All you need to know is that he is gone. It only feels worse to go over everything. When he pops into your mind scream, play loud music or start exercising--anything to change your mind. (It sounds silly but helps) Eventually you will think of him less. Don't deny your pain, just don't wallow in it. Accept that you are hurting but that the pain will make you stronger and you will NOT give up on love. (with a better guy at some point when you are ready)
Best wishes.
2007-02-20 12:48:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are alot of 'players' like him and you have to be very careful. They lead you on and still see their ex behind your back! I fell so sorry for you because you fell in love with him and fell into his trap!
If I were you, I would try to forget about him and move on. Give yourself plenty of time to get over this, time is a great healer.
I hope that one day you will meet a wonderful, honest and trustworthy guy because you are a nice lady and you deserve REAL LOVE in your life!! Good Luck with everything!!
2007-02-20 12:57:01 · answer #2 · answered by saau2003 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that happened to you but I fully understand as I have just gone through the same thing recently. All the signs were there but I was "so in love" that I couldn't see past what I was getting myself into & ended up being completely heartbroken. We are human, live & learn.
2007-02-20 12:43:38 · answer #3 · answered by princessfoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's very easy to overlook someone's flaws when you fall for them. you tend to listen to your heart more than your head and unfortunately you end up getting burned. i know what it's like to want to believe in someone even though i knew they were lying. you have to stop feeling bad about being "used", and try to move on. this will be a lesson for you next time. i've been there and done that more than a few times, just don't give up on trying to find the one. good luck to you
2007-02-20 12:48:27 · answer #4 · answered by SassySue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck with your love life...hope everything works out
don't feel bad about it...everyone needs to vent every once in a while. and trust me, you are not the only girl who has fallen for the wrong guy. if you feel like you need to vent more, email me! you are not alone
hope that helped ease the pain a bit
2007-02-20 12:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by sarasugar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 09:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by durrell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YO--- It's totally okay to vent.
WHAT A JERK!! (I'm referring to the guy)
You know what, you'd actually be surprised at how many people you are helping simply by sharing your story.
2007-02-20 12:45:15 · answer #7 · answered by What gives? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are assholes arent they. dont worry you will find the right one,and all this will be a learning experience. good luck! it will get better
2007-02-20 12:46:43 · answer #8 · answered by baileysmommy06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋