my firend is going to have a baby and she going get an adotion how do i get it to STOP .also what option does she have
2007-02-20 12:35:38 · 10 answers · asked by jaci c 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Is "adotion" abortion or adoption?
Those are her options, but no one will be able to answer your question correctly because it's impossible to read what your question actually is....
2007-02-20 12:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by greecevaca 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you friend is 13, there is NO way she is ready to be a responsible parent. She is still so young herself, physically, emotionally, financially, and lacks maturity.
for the better interest of the baby, it is best that she places the child up for adoption. The baby deserves to have the absolute best shot at life.
If she wants to contact an agency, she can do so over the phone, they are very understanding, and will guide her through the entire process, even cover some of her medical needs if she cannot. Make sure you support your friend's decision here, she will need all of the positive support she can get.
2007-02-21 09:42:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have no right to stop her from doing what she chooses to do. I'm figureing that if she is getting an abortion that her parents know about it since in ALL states in order to perform an abortion on a minor UNDER the age of 16 parents MUST be notified and their permission MUST be given. After the age of 16 the law differs in different states. So this is an option between her and her parents not you.
"If she is having an abortion, that is another thing. That is killing a living thing." So I take it you're a vegan? You don't eat chicken embryos? Never had veal? You don't eat bacon or fastfood burgers?
2007-02-21 05:16:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't you think that at age 13 your friend is way too immature to care for a child? I know adoption sounds awful and it will be hard for your friend, but there are a lot of nice people out there who really want children and are unable to have them. What your friend really needs is for someone to be there for her when things get hard. Maybe someone will adopt the baby that lives locally and allow her to still be in the babies life. However things may go, adoption is a lot better option than abortion or a mother who resents her child because he took away her teenage years. Just be a good and supportive friend.
2007-02-20 20:45:01 · answer #4 · answered by Jenn 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you mean abortion or adoption? If she gives the baby up fo adoption, then DO NOT STOP HER!!!!! She knows she is too young to take care of a child and she is doing the right thing.
If she is having an abortion, that is another thing. That is killing a living thing. That child now has a heart beat. It is dependent on her for life, and now she wants to take that away from it?! That child is defensless. At least give it a chance at a good life and give it up for adoption.
2007-02-20 22:21:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I might not understand your question
Is she thinking about abortion or adoption?
If she is thinking about Abortion, tell her some people regret having a abortion for the rest of the life. I think she need to know where she believe life begins. If it's at conception, she will have problems with an abortion.
Adoption, Why stop here? I see adoption as an act of love. A loving mom giving her baby to a loving couple who want one, and can not have one of their own.
Tell you friend good luck, and think about what she want
Tell her to watch the amazing Race, there is a couple who wants a child, and can not have one
There a ton of people, if she thinking about abortion, tell to about adoption.
2007-02-20 20:47:45 · answer #6 · answered by Halo Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's doing to do what?
adoption or abortion?
There are a lot of good places out there to talk to. Keep in mind that some are very pro-choice and will encourage abortion, some are pro-life and will encourage adoption.
Unfortunately you can't stop her decision. Look in the phone book for pregnancy testing, there are many that will be llisted as abortion alternatives. They will atleast give her something to think about before she makes up her mind.
She also should talk to an adult that she trusts.
2007-02-20 20:42:29 · answer #7 · answered by sillymorg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is entirely up to your friend. It is her decision and something she needs to think fully about. She is very young to be having a baby and I suggest she talks to an adult, someone she is close to about it. If she is afraid to talk to her parents she needs to confide in someone else. Such as your parents, a school counseller etc. Her parents if she told them might be really upset, but ultimately (( in most cases)) they would accept it and help her figure out what to do. In the end its her decision. Her options would be adoption, abortion, or keeping the baby and raising it herself. All these are possible, but only one is going to be for her. Each comes with heavy responsibility, but she really needs to talk to an adult.. good luck
2007-02-20 20:42:56 · answer #8 · answered by coco_k22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to talk her out of the abortion. if she doesn't want it, when it is born, she can give it up for adoption. at least this way the child has a chance at life. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-20 20:44:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
She has the option of i hate to say it, but abortion (VERY BAD. It is a horrible thing, the baby falls apart, literaly when it is aborted.) Bad bad thing, i say to just have it, and get over with the adoption, many people want babies, that can't have them. You'd get money out of it too. =]] Best of luck.
2007-02-20 20:38:48 · answer #10 · answered by chippychip 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋