I have herd lots of ways to get guys attention. Like try bumping into him gently then say hi I don't think we have met before and just say hi when you see him and that you should do something out of the ordinary to help him if he needs it but don't go push it b/c he might think ur weird. Also that guys like girls that are not afraid to stand up for what they belive in. Does this really work? Which one should I do? I was going to try to talk to him today but I didn't see him at all and I am really going crazy now. I will try to do something but if you have anymore advice or just something that you would like to commit on please do. I have a question about flirting too. Can you give me some ways for me to flirt with him? Give me any of them please no matter how crazy they sound I'll think about all of them? Also can you give me some clues so I can figure out if he might like me and how can I tell if he is flirting with me? WILL CHOOSE BEST ANSWER!!!
2007-02-20 12:28:25 · 5 answers · asked by Loaha 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stop trying so hard. Just be yourself. Don't try to control the situation (like "accidentally" bumping into him if it was no accident) because there are too many factors to control. Men are aware of those tricks because they use them all the time.
Just be straightforward and if he asks what you are doing don't try to hide your intentions.
As for flirting- men like compliments (appropriate to themselves, don't tell a scrawny guy how big his muscles are...) but don't lay them on TOO thick.
Playing hard to get and teasing are also very important parts of flirting.
2007-02-20 12:32:58 · answer #1 · answered by dmlk2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bumping into him or some other way of inadvertently touching him will work. as far as standing up for what you believe in that's a matter of context, because it's easy to do that with it falling on deaf ears, plus he may not get it and you'll end up getting someone else's attention, be careful with that one.
standing up for what one believes in, only works with certain guys; those that are more intelligent than most, those that typically do such themselves, regardless of the repercussions and those that have more than enough experiences with the average girl that does not, and are looking for something different. so again, you may attract a guy that is older and more experienced than what you're looking for at this point, whatever that may be. chances are if you're asking about ways to get his attention, that may be more than you're in for at this point.
myself i like a direct approach; but it doesn't have to be direct like going into details and stuff just direct like asking for little things that show that you care, and that there's something more behind whatever it is i've agreed to than simple friendship. though the former isn't bad either it all depends. you can always give him lots of eye contact, or start up conversations on stuff he's interested in. there was this one girl that always talked about my clothes; it took a while for me to really take notice, because that isn't really that unusual for me to get the compliments, but it wasn't until there were times that she didn't, and then again when she would, that really got my attention. that's when i knew it was sincere; though we aren't friends any more i still tend to think that it was sincere, just that, at the end of the day, we don't have anything in common. but you'll never know if you never try ...
2007-02-20 20:39:56 · answer #2 · answered by collard greens with hash browns 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go up to him and just talk to him. thats what i did and i didnt even know the guy. get his back grond check too so hes not like a player or anything like that. i did it and i been with the guy for 3 years and expecting a baby. we had no class together by the way so you got a chance. just do it!
2007-02-20 20:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by Laura J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just smile and wink at him.he will get the message.if he doesnt get it,then hes not an american or hes gay.i know that would catch my attension.if i were young and some girl would wink at me,i would be ready lol.
2007-02-20 20:36:03 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
email me when you find out !!
2007-02-20 20:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by korinne kouture;; 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋