I have a boyfriend, but he went for 1 year away. So I was vergin before he left, but now i am not. How can tell him the true. Plz help me.
2007-02-20 12:27:41 · 14 answers · asked by UUUHHHTASH 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like you are scared to tell him - which makes me feel that you are not trully comfortable with him. I always pick the wrong ones too but do not worry if you lost your virginity - why dont you try to stay with the man you lost your virginity too rather than go back with this guy - as you say he has been away for a year and did he keep in touch with you regularly - like phone you loads - if not consider not moving backwards..and if you still want him just say you moved on and waited for him but got too curious to know what it was like to do it, make sure u protect yourself anyway - I am over-fertile so I am one to talk- I am currently pregnant too..You can tell him truthfully- you can even send him an email if you are scared of the confrontation of it all and at least then you can outline your real feelings that you may be scared to say to his face..anyway either way dont panic..but dont pin all your dreams on him - you obviously felt for someone else while he was away..so remember that much and think about that person - maybe they would be better for you? either way good luck..and dont worry at all!
2007-02-20 12:34:54 · answer #1 · answered by Babs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You been naughty and gone and deprived him of his rights. And that is the point is it his rights or your rights. In our part of the world (Manchester) no one expects to encounter a virgin unless you are extremely lucky or unlucky. Most lost it 14 and got pregnant..
No don't worry. Just don't have anymore sex and if he should notice just say you did it yourself one night. But don't tell him you've been sh***ing or he will go away forever.
2007-02-20 20:36:23 · answer #2 · answered by K. Marx iii 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says it's an actual necessity to tell him? Part of any good relationship is knowing what not to say. If he asks, and you want to be honest, more power to you. But it's not the end of the world if you keep something like that to yourself, and it won't hurt him much, either.
2007-02-20 20:32:54 · answer #3 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm, Hunny, while you were gone. I cheated on you. I'm sorry. But don't expect him to forgive you. Or still be with you. Hopefully he did the same, and wasn't holding out for YOU
2007-02-20 20:31:03 · answer #4 · answered by Mandy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him thats all u can do . The truth is very important u know..
2007-02-20 20:31:40 · answer #5 · answered by aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WELL DID U TELL HIM U WAS A VIRGIN IF SO DEN U JUST NEED TO LEAVE HIM ALONE CAUSE DATS GONE HURT HIM BAD
2007-02-20 20:31:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him if you love him. But if he dont want you back. then u have to let him go if you love him.
2007-02-20 20:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just call him and tell him, he'll cool down and after that you can both work things out
2007-02-20 20:30:45 · answer #8 · answered by AlFoNs0_newbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. Maybe he wasn't faithful either.
2007-02-20 20:30:25 · answer #9 · answered by Deborah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi i am rohanna . you don't know what he is doing . so tell him that your not a virgin........ ask him if he really love you he will forgive you cuz everybody makes mistakes
2007-02-20 20:35:01 · answer #10 · answered by Rohanna 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋