sexual relationship one of them always breaks the pact and plays the LOVE card?
When you are tired of having your heart ripped out shouldnt it be ok just to have fun with somone you like without having to be in love?
2007-02-20 12:23:20 · 6 answers · asked by dan 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Coz a no-strings attached relationship is still tricky. Feelings can always come in the picture when 2 people like each other and are close. We are humans. Plus, the sexual act creates a bonding hormone. It's biology. So be careful...what u put ur feet into. Know the risks.
2007-02-20 12:28:49 · answer #1 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many people find it difficult to follow through with the "no strings attached" thought process once that level of intimacy has been achieved. One may enter into that type of agreement with the best intentions, but many can't maintain that. I do think it's more difficult for women than men, but I have known several men who found it almost impossible to not get attached and feelings begin to develop in that type of situation. If your friend has changed with regard to her level of affection, you not only owe it to yourself but also to her to break it off. It's only going to cause pain for the person that has become attached.
2007-02-20 12:31:38 · answer #2 · answered by Michele D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree! When I was 20, or 21... I had a friend for that reason, and that reason only.. No strings..no I love you's..nothing that could lead to anyone getting hurt. He was my best guy friend at the time, we talked about everything.. If it got to where things were getting weird we talked about it. Other then that the sex was fantastic.. I had fallen for another guy who tore my heart out as well.... Then for a long time....I wouldnt date anyone..just sex, well with the one guy.. So..it worked out great for me...
2007-02-20 12:29:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon..there are no guarantees in this world and everyone is entitled to change their mind. If you want that type of relationship..don't do it with a good friend. Now you might have just lost someone who really cares about you. Do the hook up thing with someone who isn't so close to you.
2007-02-20 12:31:51 · answer #4 · answered by R! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone breaks the pact, it's his/her problem, but it's time for you to move on.
2007-02-20 12:26:26 · answer #5 · answered by la buena bruja 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know if i fell for him but i i definately felt something, i think it was just bonding... i knew him for a long time and he was so good so so so good! but i kept my outh shut since there was no strings attached and nothing came from it and i realized i didnt have feelings for him just his down there friend... hehe. god i miss him!!! haha
2007-02-20 12:34:07 · answer #6 · answered by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋