i was my girl friend for little over a year and we began fighting a lot so we broke up it's been 3 months since we broke up. I still have fellings for her but she doesn't for me. I've been talking to her for the past 3 months almost everyday.I even decided not to do anything with anyone cuz i thought things would of gotten better between us. Don't knowwhat to do still talk to her and hang out with her.When i know that this is not going no where. can you give some advise
2007-02-20 12:19:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dude..it's been 3 months. Move on. It's gonna make you a stronger person in the end. Think of the future. You have so much left for you :)
2007-02-20 12:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by redsoxmom1979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of vibes is she sending u? Do u feel....u r going the same route again and nothing will come off it. Are u having that gut feeling. Then let go. If u feel she is responding more favorably. And when u r close to her, she is responsive and takes initiatives etc....then it's more positive. But if nothing's happening, then hoping for more will keep u in deep pain and anguish. It's not easy, but I'd say loosen ur grip and let go. Maybe talking everyday is not a good idea. And I surely feel u shd start meeting other people. Let her know that once she is serious about being together, or dating seriously, then she can contact u and u'd be happy to hear from her.
2007-02-20 20:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can still be close friends with someone like your ex-GF and still meet other women, you know. Just be patient, and keep an open mind. Otherwise, you'll just depress yourself, and that's not a good thing.
2007-02-20 20:23:40 · answer #3 · answered by knight2001us 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better to have her as a friend then not at all... give her a chance, she might come back to you... doesnt she deserve to be happy. if you care about wouldnt you like to know what been happening to her, how she feels? dont you wanna still be able to look after her in some way? i wish my ex who still liked me did, he left me all alone and i missed being able to just talk to him... i still do miss talking to him. give her a chance, you want her to be happy right? good luck babe
2007-02-20 20:24:47 · answer #4 · answered by young, hot, and Aussie! (chick) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm. honey i think you may want to move on...see when ppl come in your life and they want to go you have to let them go dont hold on to them or they are goin to cause you more pain then ever so you should jus let her go on and find something new u dont know what is out there if you are jus struck with that girl
2007-02-22 17:05:04 · answer #5 · answered by MODel-08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋