Is it possible, someone to live alone and to be happy?

Question

I mean...without love and sex.
I am asking because I tried to find someone for myseld and it didn't work. I was looking for a girl 5 years (more or less), and especially the past several days around Valentine's day.
But still it is useless...but in fact I really think that I am becoming to feel better and better. and I don't need girls anymore.

So, do you think that someone could live by his own and to stay happy?

Answer 1

Of course it is!

If you love yourself, you'll find out that you don't need someone TO BE HAPPY. Having someone to love is nice and it makes like fun, but it's not the reason you ARE happy.

The best thing you can do is just love who you are!

Answer 2

Absolutely! The thing is, you need to stop looking, and just simply start living. Enjoy being single. Do things for yourself. If you look like your avatar, I'm not sure why you are having trouble.

My divorce from an emotionally abusive man had just been finalized, and I was not attracting any men. When you have been hurt in a relationship, you like to at least feel that you can attract someone else. I have been told that I am attractive, and that I look very good for my age. I have a nice personality & a good sense of humor. Still, I was attracting women - not men. Okay, let me just say that not only am I NOT gay - but I am a Christian, whose beliefs would not make me the least bit interested in a relationship with another woman. Still, WOMEN - not men were hitting on me. I went to e-Harmony.com to take their free personality profile. It is a long series of questions, but it gives you an assessment of your personality and puts it into a profile for you. I did it simply because I was wondering what about me was saying that men should abuse me and women should desire me. After taking this profile assessment (it is free), I found it to be pretty accurate. I discovered that I was just likely in the wrong place at the wrong time when the women approached me, because the website immediately sent me matches of men who were very compatible with my profile.

I ended up paying for a membership just to communicate with the matches they were sending me. See, they match you up with people whose personalities, character traits, beliefs and values closely resemble your own. You have a greater chance of relationship success when you match in these areas. I communicated with a few matches, and I met my fiance through e-Harmony. We've been together for 14 months and will be married next month. If you have been trying to find a woman for 5 years, it is worth giving e-Harmony a try. Sounds like you are searching for a long-term relationship. That's what that website specializes in. If not, then celebrate being single. If you go to church, there are church groups which cater to singles. You can meet a lot of good friends that way (I did this) and you can learn what it means to be happy and single. Best of luck to you. You sound like a nice guy because you value a sincere relationship. Any woman should be thrilled to get a guy like you. Best wishes to you!!

Answer 3

Sure you can, be happy on your own, millions do it every day.
It could be that you are getting deperate and that can be a turn off to lots of women.
So give up on the searching, live your life, join clubs, volunteer for different projects. Take night classes, where you can meet other people, and who knows, if you meet enough people, you might just meet the special one for you.
One thing too, if you are having fun and enjoying your life, that will show, and women find that attractive. So good luck..

Answer 4

Yes,some do but some no.Cos some have lots of people to care for like volunteer work so they need not any company.but if one only work and home when time get longer they will feel loney.so what kind or type r u.or u have to serch around and wait till fate comes then will have a gf.

Answer 5

Yes, you can be alone and be very happy. The amazing thing is, just when you decide you are very happy being alone, someone will come along and you won't be alone anymore, but you will be even happier because even though you enjoy the person, you know they are not the keeper of your happiness, that you are.

Answer 6

Well, yes, it is entirely possible. People are less likely to be happy when they are single, but that is not a cause and effect relationship. You can be happy either way, it's just that for most of us, it is our instinct and a major part of the the way we are socialized, to seek a relationship. Going against that isnt easy, but it can be done.

Answer 7

You can absolutely live alone and be happy because you have lots of things to be thankful for, like your health, your family and your friends. You asked that question because you felt lonely. There's a difference between being alone and being lonely. Being alone doesn't mean you don't have numerous meaningful relationships with others like yr family/friends, colleagues. Being lonely means you do not have any. Make your life meaningful and not lonely, then you can be alone and yet happy. :)

Answer 8

I think so. I live by myself and it's been the vehicle to my finding myself without outside influence. It's been positive for me, lately anyway. But, I have been through a lot and I can't speak for anyone else. But again, you know what they say, if you don't enjoy your own company how can you expect anyone else to? Good luck to you. There's someone out there for you.

Answer 9

Yeah deffinetly. Have fun in life. Live your life to the fullest. A girl will come along sooner or later that has the same interests as you. Don't feel bad.

Answer 10

Yes, I do! I was perfectly happy being alone. I mean, I had a social life and friends and all of that...but no significant other. I was FINE with that. As it so happened, when I wasn't looking...I found my perfect mate.