There is girl that I'm interested in. We've known each other for a couple of months and a couple weeks ago (about 2) I gave her a suggestion that I was interested in her. She cool about it but she didn't seem like she was too interested. For the next week or so it seemed like she acted kind of strange/ alittle stand-offish so I said f&$% it and started to give other girls attention. Today I was sitting next to another girl and she came over. I don't think that she knew that I was talking to the girl and I think she expect me to put all of my attention on her because she had come to stand near me. When she got up to me and saw that I was talking to the other girl she looked alittle strange and then walked away. Later that day, I was coming out of the bathroom and she happened to be coming out at the same time. Even though she had something to do and couldn't hang with me she seemed noticeably more lively towards me than she had been recently. What do u think is going on? Why?
2007-02-20 12:12:42 · 9 answers · asked by Vince R 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I read one comment asking what I said when I "suggested" that I was interested in her. Of course I can't remember exactly what I said but in so many words I told her how much I liked hanging with her, how beautiful I think that she is and told her that I wanted to be closer to her.
2007-02-20 14:49:27 · update #1
You're not giving the key information needed to give you a good answer. You say you gave her a suggestion that you were interested in her. What did you say? Sometimes things we say can be interpreted so many ways, and she may have reacted 'cool' towards it if she was confused or not certain of what you meant. Also you cannot tell if a girl likes you by how she reacts to your flirting with other girls. For instance, I find it to be a turn off, a sure sign the guy is a player or not really into me so I will drop him. A girl whose interest is sparked by your paying attention to other girls may not be one for you, as she may be petty and just attention-seeking. If she is more lively now maybe she is that way OR maybe she feels comfortable around you now because she never was interested in you before and now she doesn't have to worry about rejecting you cause she sees you've moved on. So, more info is needed. What did you tell her? And why not just ask her to go to something fun with you? Did you expect her to ask you in return...? Alot of girls won't do that, dude.
2007-02-20 12:24:34 · answer #1 · answered by Jebbie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are weird, when a friend tells you that they like you more than a friend can make you kind of uneasy with them if the feelings aren't reciprocated but then when you start paying other girls attention she gets jealous and tries to get you to notice her again. It's a case of i don't want you but i don't want you to stop paying me attention.
2007-02-20 12:19:41 · answer #2 · answered by jimmy_chick78 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she's shy. when she saw u paying attention 2 other girls she got hurt. i think she likes u but is just a little afraid 2 show it.
2007-02-20 12:23:57 · answer #3 · answered by BB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's showing you attention
make some time for each other.
she was shy before. If things go well for about a week or so, try asking her out.
2007-02-20 12:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by Bree 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she probably wanted to come around on her own time and tell u rhat she is feelin u back, just sit her down and talk to her and tell her how you feel about her and ask her how she feels about you.
2007-02-20 12:19:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she's starting to have feelings for you. Talk to her about what's going on.
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2016-10-17 08:18:35 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out, whats the worst she could say?
2007-02-20 12:16:56 · answer #8 · answered by hawtchick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok shes probaly going thouigh alot shes scared nervous or just a *****
2007-02-20 12:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋