ok bit of information.......do you think its possible to fall for someone who you have never physically met but have seen pictures, spoken on phone and written to one another?
has anyone found their partner in this way? or is it just the idea of it thats appealing?
does it work?
2007-02-20 12:10:09 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok A.C point taken but desperation doesnt come into it.
the circs were we were given each others numbers etc by a mutual friend who thought we would hit it off and unfortunately he had to go to iraq (he's in army) before we could meet, bad timing, was asking because i've never been in the situation and wanted to hear of anyone elses experiences.
2007-02-20 12:27:35 · update #1
I think it is possible just not probable. It is very easy to get to talking and get to know a person and not meet. And to have feelings get involved with them. The only problem is I think we build up a bit in our own minds all of the little things we expect. And sometimes when we actually meet that person they are not what we have made them out to be. It is much easier to miss all the little annoying things and only see the things we like when we are not around a person. I think that is part of why dating from chat rooms and all of that have such a low success rate, it is too easy to make our own reality even when we don't realize that is what we are doing. But when that person becomes physically real there is a lot more to gamble on and a lot more chances they won't meet the expectations we have made for them in our own minds.
But don't let that cause you not to go with what your feeling. At the end of the day it all comes down to what you want and what you are comfortable with. Everyone can have an opinion, and everyone has different experiences in life. Doesn't make any one person right or wrong each situation is it's own and has to be based separate.
2007-02-20 12:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by tattooed_and_pierced_countryboy 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Relationships grow from all kinds of begings..Still 90% of human emotion is expressed by Line and Jesture..So if you have never met might be like meeting for the first time..
2007-02-20 12:23:35 · answer #2 · answered by yaboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think of that is available to an quantity, yet love is a lot extra advantageous than who the guy is on the interior. Love encompasses each little thing, and in case you have on no account met the guy, you do no longer understand "each little thing". actual charm is only as substantial while it includes romantic love. do you understand what his voice appears like? that would rely! How approximately what he sounds like? (I as quickly as met a guy on line who i actually enjoyed, yet as quickly as I met him in individual, as shallow because it sounds, i could no longer get previous his huge curly mop of hair!) Does he spit on the floor, stroll with a limp, leer at females, turn human beings off, have a horse-like chuckle, chuckle lots, dress in a manner you do no longer discover appropriate... i think of that is like to an quantity, yet i do no longer think of that is this variety of affection you adventure from understanding somebody in individual.
2016-11-24 21:02:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible to fall for someone in that way!!!!!
But realistically you need to meet in person to see if you really gel
I have a few friends ( female ) who I fancy but you don't know unless you meet in person unfortunately :(
Be careful with your heart ,I know it's hard but you need to think in real terms!!!!
Best wishes
2007-02-20 13:43:37 · answer #4 · answered by Zenlife07 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No not really.
Now I know that you find me interesting & I you but you might not be tender loving & caring like me.
You only get to know these things after meeting.
I think its called Physics or Chemistry or Biology
2007-02-20 12:30:29 · answer #5 · answered by ANDREW H 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yep, I did and i'd only talked to them in a chatroom and on the telephone a couple of times, she was married, we had an affair - biggest mistake of my entire life - and not one i'll be rushing to repeat.
2007-02-20 12:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by thecoldvoiceofreason 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
nooo for the 50th time,unless you are desperate,meeting someone is special,being in the same room,eyes meeting,physical attraction etc etc
2007-02-20 12:14:52 · answer #7 · answered by a.c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is i fell for sumone after the first few texts he sent and wen i did meet him this was confirmed we been together for 6 months now x
2007-02-21 00:52:50 · answer #8 · answered by geordie_boi_86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you think you like him that much then when he returns meet up with him if he is what you expected then love is in the air if not life goes on and their is plenty more men out there :D
2007-02-20 12:50:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes! it is possible.....but you have to risk something for the sake of your love, if really wanted to .... remember you can pretend something through phone calls, chatting...etc, coz you can say anything you want....i mean not physically....it is very important to know the one you love by truly him physically....
2007-02-20 14:12:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋