I have liked one of my instructors for many months and now at karate, a new boy has come in the picture. I still like my instrctuor, but sometimes he is mooder than a girl! The other boy has a lot of good quailties, but I dont know everything about him. I want to give the new guy a chance, but should I give up the guy I have loved for ever??
2007-02-20 12:05:53 · 10 answers · asked by Girl 2 in Sports ➔ Martial Arts
haha good on ya bruiser.yeah and post it on you tube.
2007-02-20 12:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by BUSHIDO 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well the thing is, are you and the instructor an item (are you guys really dating each other on a regular basis)
, or is it just a date here and then a couple of weeks later, a date there? (casually datin' each other).
there's nothin' wrong with datin' around if you're not in a relationship.
Your prob'ly still fairly young anyhow so I really wouldn't put too much emphasis on splittin hairs here.
as long as everyone understands the intentions (as far as the dating goes), it shouldn't be a problem, but you've got to make it clear ahead of time.
and if Mr. moody is turning you off with the mood attitude, then yeah you can also date the other guy if he's got a more upbeat outlook.
2007-02-20 21:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by quiksilver8676 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First off if you say it is BOY Problems you can't be that old. Don't mess with your instructor he is doing a job. A instructor of Intergrity would not mess with his students. Actually your Karate class is not a hook up class it is a Karate class. Focus on what you are there for.
2007-02-21 11:30:54 · answer #3 · answered by SuperSoldierGIJOE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont ever fall for the people you train with. it is easy to believe that they are perfect because you have a similar experience that you share, and any shared experience allows for personal attraction. be it friends, or something more serious.
but dont fall for it. the infatuation could easy set you up to fall. if the only time you see them is at training then you know nothing about the rest of their life. once you get to know them they may not be your dream date, and then what?
you have to see them when you train... awkward.
normally I would say go for it, but you may be best top wait and see. definitely dont go for a moody guy though. sure, we all have bad days, but a sad @ss just isnt professional as an instructor.
but, the choice is yours. do and find out for sure, or dont and wonder about what if's...
2007-02-21 02:09:46 · answer #4 · answered by SAINT G 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are at a karate dojo, not a date site. Keep your attention on the correct body parts. You are there to learn a martial art, I thought. Not find a boyfriend.
2007-02-21 17:28:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it's a good idea to go out with people from your dojo. If you break up its gonna be really akward and annoying. Plus either way your hindering your progress. Plus if your a teenager at least your really likely to break up with him making it more likely youll be in that akward situation
2007-02-20 23:27:37 · answer #6 · answered by The Wall 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
DONT GIVE UP!.... the guy give up karate!
those guys are probably trying to learn and you are toataly NOT focused and waisting your own time... why bother.. just hang out out side instead.
2007-02-20 23:39:58 · answer #7 · answered by sam 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Three way gang-, urgh, I mean go for the new guy, the instructor is a pansy
2007-02-20 23:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Legal Eagle 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At class, focus on training, your not getting the most out of it if your checking out guys.
2007-02-20 20:52:06 · answer #9 · answered by Celebrate Life 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
THREE WAY!!!!!!!
2007-02-20 20:12:31 · answer #10 · answered by BRUISER 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋