i just found out my ex has move on.he found somebody else.we broke up 4 months.after we break up,we still see each other but now he's avoiding me.he was telling me maybe in the future, we can be together.but i dont think it's gonna happen.
2007-02-20 12:02:45 · 18 answers · asked by skyrus 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Get over it and move on yourself.... He isnt worth all the drama you are putting yourself through. You only have 1 life, LIVE IT!
2007-02-21 08:04:42 · answer #1 · answered by slim27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, just move on yourself. I was heartbroken in a similar situation when I had a boyfriend after my divorce. This man told me he loved me, but it turned out he didn't. He immediately found someone new and she moved into his home. It broke my heart that he got over me so quickly. It took me months to get over him. I finally got it in my head that he wasn't worth the pain I was putting myself through and that I deserved to be happy. I learned to accept myself as single and happy. I began working out at the gym again, I found activities I enjoyed doing and I did them. I pampered myself and practiced what my sister calls "good self-care". It worked. Now when I think of this guy, I feel sad for him. He has moved on yet again (he dumped the other woman), and he will likely never be happy because he has serious commitment issues. I, on the other hand, took my new, confident self, found another guy, and we will be married next month. Live your life. Enjoy your life. You owe it to yourself to move on also. You are not teaching your ex anything by punishing yourself. The best thing you can do for yourself is to show him that you no longer need him to be happy. Good luck. Now go out and live, girl!
2007-02-20 20:10:41 · answer #2 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No need to be sad, this is part of life, and like him, you too, should move on.
Once you start dating again, you will soon feel less sad and forget your exboyfriend.
Who knows, you may get together in the future, but you live in the now, so go out and enjoy life.
2007-02-20 20:07:26 · answer #3 · answered by johnb693 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up is not easy. Especially if he moved on before you. Be strong give your self time. Go out dancing, shopping, spend time with your love ones.Trust me before you know it he will be something from the past and you would be in love again with some one else. Life
2007-02-20 20:34:34 · answer #4 · answered by SARA 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on kid and dont let someone else get you down. Go out with others and maybe leave the door slightly open for the other guy but don't count on him and dont let him think you care for him at all..
2007-02-20 20:13:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that always happend that some times are good and sometimes bad, but let me tel you because you relationship is over with him is not the end of the world...It happend to me and everyone in this beautiful world is part of are beautiful life...And don't be sad for that because you are not alone...Is so many people that are in the same position and I just recommend that you move on too and learn something from this relationship with your ex boyf...Have fun that life is so beautiful and so short that been sad because at that is not whorth it...
2007-02-20 20:11:35 · answer #6 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u think u will not be togethr so just try 2 4get him. try to do some activity and make ur self busy so u will not thinking abt this thing so much so it will help u not be aways sad. dont be sad 4 this things all. we got a lot things 2 do more. come on cheer up. be happy. tc
2007-02-20 20:08:19 · answer #7 · answered by zainudeen84 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has moved on, and now you need to figure out a way to let him go and move on with your life. He is no longer important. Now, you need to start focusing on yourself and take care of yourself. Being sad is unhealthy and you are not taking care of yourself.
I want you to be healthy and be happy, hunny.
There are millions of men in this world, don't focus too much on one man that doesn't care about you. Find one who cares about you. You deserve to be happy.
Cheers
2007-02-20 20:07:48 · answer #8 · answered by Daft One 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl forget about him. Act like it doesn't bother you that he's not talking to you. There are plenty of other fish in the sea. Maybe plan a girl's night with your friends that will help you forget about him.
2007-02-20 20:09:59 · answer #9 · answered by XoLipGlossoX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie move on no point in hanging on to a love thats gone
2007-02-20 20:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by @ _ease_wit_lyfe 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋