I have a crush on this guy, and I'm very, very, shy. And no one knows how much I really want to talk to him, but there are some problems. One, I don't have any classes with him, and I only get to see him on my way to class. And two, he's as shy as I am. But I'm also scared to make a fool of myself. Anything to help me out on this. Plz tell me!
2007-02-20 11:49:44 · 17 answers · asked by Read the nametag, Duh! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
KEVIN, Where the hell did u get the idea that I was seeing four other guys? Are u on crack or something?
2007-02-20 11:55:02 · update #1
I'm not a shy "guy" but I was once a shy girl like you.........try just smiling at him when you see him or saying "hi" and see how he responds to you.
If he is shy too, you may have to resort to putting a note in his locker with your phone number and seeing what happens, but FIRST see if saying hi to him at least gets a smile, so you know he is interested too, OK?
P.S. If I remember right, the Sadie Hawkins dance should be coming up soon (April or May??)........that is your perfect opportunity to ask him out if he seems at ALL interested when you smile at him in the hall. Yes, it is nerve wracking, but NO, it won't last forever if you are rejected. Just think about how often the girls reject the guys and they keep trying - it will be SCARY AS HELL but may turn into something worthwhile.
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2007-02-20 11:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by Avon Lady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold on, I'm Kevin. The other guy is Kevil.
OK, if you really like the guy, you won't make a fool of yourself. It will show him just how much you really care. Drop some books in front of him and if he picks them up for you, look into his eyes and say thank you. After that, you can see if he might like to meet you for a soda or something like that or even help you with your books, anything to keep him talking.
2007-02-20 12:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by Kevin A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before u even think of getting in a relationship u need to figure out what it is that make u uncomfortable with yourself. U can't help but make a fool of yourself when u aren't natural about what you are doing and to be natural u have to be confident. After u figure that out and find a way to get over it u should just tell him how u feel and see what happens. Good Luck!
2007-02-20 11:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey i'm a shy guy, but i now have a girlfriend, which i've been with for a long time. you wanna know how that happened? she asked me. so my best advice for you is to forget about being shy and just say hi. for example you could be walking to class and then "accidentaly" block his way. this would make him have to say something. and if you do make a fool of yourself, think of it this way, the worst has already past. after that all you have to do is say hi. i'm sure he'll just smile and say hi back. trust me i was like that too.
good luck.
2007-02-20 12:04:28 · answer #4 · answered by TheDrummer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write him a note telling him that you would like to talk to him privately, after school. Then when you are alone, just talk to him. Even shy guys like attention from time to time. You never know, he might be trying to find a way to talk to you. Just have the courage and life will open doors for you!
2007-02-20 11:56:18 · answer #5 · answered by troutpotato 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wave/say hi to him when you see him in the hallways...start taking some interest in him. Maybe a couple of quick but noticeable glances will help as well. See if he takes interest in you after those first couple of steps, try to see if you can find some sort of response from him. Take it from there, don't do anything out of the ordinary/that's not part of your personality.
2007-02-20 11:55:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The thing to so is to use subtle body language and signs to show that you are interested (women know how to do this)|
And if he is truly right, we will reciprocate|
Then you will find yourself growing close and closer until there is a real relationship|
But that will take time|
But if that does not happen, don't worry, it just meant that you two were not really meant for each other|
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2007-02-20 11:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by Catholic Philosopher 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really, really, easy. Look at his eyes as you pass him and smile, every time.Then after a while, start saying hi as you pass each other once in a while.Eventually he will stop and start a bit of small talk. You got your foot in.....From a painfully shy guy at the time.
2007-02-20 12:26:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is that wimpish? I advise you place your self accessible by ability of protecting palms with women, which i locate atypical considering the fact that became into it for a venture or are you doing this for boyfriend/female buddy sort of ingredient, yet besides, that is lots and dancng is a lot too. i do no longer see how that is wimpish.
2016-11-24 21:00:41 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is 10% what happens to you and 90% what you do about it.
2007-02-20 11:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by Snagglepuss 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋