That there are certain people who can NEVER attract anyone of the opposite sex, no matter what they do? These people might be totally normal, with both good and bad qualities but nothing out of the ordinary. Yet there is an unexplainable reason why they never score. I am a 23 year old man in such a situation. How do I figure out what I'm doing wrong? I'm not talking about sex. I'm just referring to normal chit-chat leading to romance. I am unable to get a woman interested beyond the "Hi, the weather is nice today" stage.
2007-02-20 11:42:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have confidence when you approach a woman. Nobody likes to see men sweat. Take it easy and talk to women about what you'd talk to your guy friends about. You'd be surprised how much you would have in common with someone you just met in a convenience store.
Now if that advice doesn't help you, then you probably have no personality. If this is the case then just forget about ever having a meaningful relationship with a female.
2007-02-20 11:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by MikaDaQT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, i've totally noticed this, considering i used to be one of those ppl also! I'm by no means monsterly looking, but i have had issues! Part of what i did to help was, i honestly went onto some chat rooms, randomly and started talking. You learn by personalities what to talk about, I also found that knowing all types of modern info, not just about wars or current politics, but also the hottest trends, and the latest dirt on celebrities and entertainment! If you still get stuck, ask a person questions, this will give them an open feeling like you're genuinly interested (and i think you are genuinly interested in ppl from what you say) and if you get them talking about themselves, you might find some common ground to go into a deeper conversation about! Good luck!
2007-02-20 11:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should go to places that interest you and see if anyone there, shares the same interest. You have to be able to share something in common, besides the weather.
Attend some courses that interest you, attend church, volunteer your time somewhere, find a job that is around the public or perhaps you may meet someone there. It all depends what your interested in , before you know it you'll find someone, it just takes time to find the right one.
2007-02-20 11:54:44 · answer #3 · answered by trojan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question is did you ever think about changing your hair color ,clothes to today's style ? If not try that and see what happens . Try and flirt a little more . Get yourself out there and mingle . When you do get to talk to a girl ask her things about herself not to personal . Stop judgeing people before you get to know them . Your 23 man I 'm sure you got a certain charm to you that the ladies will fall for . GOOD LUCK !!!!
2007-02-20 11:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by Me777 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ever talk about the weather unless u r beyond deperate!!! (that would b u, age 66, trying to get a 59 year old...) try not talking about the weather, and then that might get u sumwhere.
2007-02-20 11:46:41 · answer #5 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 10:45:01 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am one of those people too. i feel sorry for them.. and i odn't know whta to do or how to start. My friend who is PLAIN JANE gets a boyfriend her first week at school. And i am lucky if a girl talks to me.
2007-02-20 11:47:11 · answer #7 · answered by NY Lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there you go, dont ask them about the weather, ask them about themselves and their interests.
2007-02-20 11:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by deus82 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋