this is another one 4 u gilrs?

Question

ok we both were in bed kissin ,,,,,,we had our clothes on..... first she told me not to touch her down there and then i try to touch her and she says "no" (she hits my hand softly)... then i manage to get there and she ends up liking it .......... and then she tells me how to touch her... i feel kinda bad cuz she said no ,but i still managed to get there. i feel bad for doing that.. what should i do??

i already told her sorry once we finished. she said it was ok.... but i feel bad cuz i did not respect her decision.

Answer 1

well, if she says that it's ok this time, then it's fine. but now you know that what you did is disrespect her decision in the first place, don't do it again. if anything, she'd let you know if she wants it again.

Answer 2

Ok, so you said you were sorry....



Did you explain how you felt? You should explain to her that you feel horrible that you disrespected her wishes and that you will never do it again. But don't dwell on the subject. It becomes easily irritating and annoying to a female.

Ask her which kind of no she meant....was it playful? teasing? Or did she REALLY mean no? If she really meant no, then, for future reference: No means no, dude, whether she likes it or not.

I wish you the best of luck. I'm sure she understands and will accept hearing your feelings. Just be honest with her. And I must applaud you for feeling remorse after this happened...there aren't too many guys like you. Take care.

Answer 3

yeah dats the stuff you got to watch out for cuz some girls don't like to be too touchy feely with a guy. Next time make sure u respect what she says becuase that could hurt someone or maybe make dem feel bad about her self

Answer 4

A little word of advice that I can give you is simply this: when a female says "NO," usually that means that she is not ready. Love should never be forced upon anyone and what you did was totally unacceptable and could be classified as rape. Being that I'm a mandated reporter, my advice that I can give you is to watch yourself on that because she could press charges if she so desired.

Answer 5

Talk about it with her, ask her how she honestly felt and why she didn't want you 'down there'. You might be surprised of the answer! Be honest with her and tell her why you wanted to do it and set some ground rules for future times, and remember, the rules can always change, and all it takes is one person saying something! Good luck with that!

Answer 6

well, first off if she said no you should have respected, but if later she let you its ok, just talk to her about it. You dont want her thinking you dont respect her. And dont do something like that again if she says no. But if she let you dont feel bad, she could have kept saying no if she truly didnt want to.

Answer 7

You can't do anything now, just remember in the future that you need to respect a womans choice!!!♥

Answer 8

You feel guilty because you raped her. even though you might not think you did. but that's what's going on. God put a conscience in us for a reason, talk a hint, he's calling you.

Answer 9

i kno how you feel but if she liked it and she didnt say anything bad about u or this incident then i think you guys r okay...if u went down on her and she said no then u would be in trouble but i think your okay...hoped i helped =]

Answer 10

well you said you were sorry... that's important. id hse isn't making a big deal about it, then forget about it. just don't do it again unless she wants it. You are sweet for caring!