My boyfriend of 8 months just broke up with me 3 days ago. I'm 18 and he is 19. I miss him terribly and I want him back. His friend tells me his misses me. He tells me he hates to see me like this and still really cares about me. I'm not sure but I think part of it is that he is scared, because the only other real relationship he has had lasted for 3 weeks. He said he needs time but I'm scared that he is going to tell me he doesn't want me back. Please help me win him back!
2007-02-20 11:32:01 · 6 answers · asked by Sarah M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
even plants need to breathe...you can't shelter anything if you want it to grow. its necessary that you be strong enough for yourself to let him take the time he is requesting. absence makes the heart grow fonder...or does it make it wander? that second thought is always the scaries but you have to just live. its only been 3 days so the cuts are still fresh from the break up. time can heal this and time can also make him want to return. proceed and be happy. you attract more bees with honey, therefore become happy and he may want to return to your life to join that happiness...if not, you'll be happy anyway so just live!
2007-02-20 11:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by justin_leary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to look at the real reason you guys broke up. He might miss you and might say he hates to see you hurt but that might not mean that he wants to get back together. Try some alone time with yourself for a while. You guys might just be better off being friends.
2007-02-20 19:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by MalGal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can still talk to him take him into a quiet room, tell him how you feel let it sink in and hope he feels the same way, and if he really does need time to think or whatever, then give him time he'll eventually come around... The worst thing you can do is pressure him... Don't act sad around him, thats how you put pressure on him then make him think that he's doing something wrong... Just give him time, and I hope I helped.
2007-02-20 19:36:48 · answer #3 · answered by kahaluiboi808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is how. DONT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Let him come back to you. Just move on then see what he does, you guys are still young. worry about what you are going to be doing for your career.
2007-02-20 19:36:11 · answer #4 · answered by yaabro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont ask him back out..hes not worth u might love him and everything but just move on you'll find someone somday...it will be okay
2007-02-20 19:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by britt 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Buy him somethin and have sex with him...
2007-02-20 19:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by pacewonworld06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋