Im 20 and my b/f is 26, the problem is everytime i can't see him he gets really mad at me and sometimes we even break up over the fact that I cant see him everyday and even though I think I see him enough times, its just that I dont want to spend all my time with him. I still live w/my parents so its hard for me to go out for days and not come back home, but he doesn't understand that and says I dont try hard enough to be with him, I kind of getting sick of it, but I dont know if im wrong/he is..
2007-02-20 11:27:05 · 9 answers · asked by bebekaychic 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's definitely wrong. Just because you're still young and have a life to fulfill doesn't mean he has to ruin it just because of his selfish desires. Tell him to calm down or it's going to be broken off, because as you've already stated, you're getting sick of his constant want for you to always be with him. Spending every single day with your boyfriend is pretty excessive form this standpoint. Part of BF/GF relationships is to endure some of the hardships both of you may go through, and if he can't understand even the simplest of the rules, then he's not for you or for anyone for that fact.
2007-02-20 11:32:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him understand that you both have a life and that he needs to let you have a life of your own. Men can sometimes be more attached and more focused on longterm relationship than the other way around. So understand that he just wants to spend more time with you! its a compliment! He is commited it seems, but he if he truly cares about you, he will respect your boundaries.
2007-02-20 19:34:01 · answer #2 · answered by alaskaowned 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, well i think you found a guy who does not have enough hobbies of his own... and as a result spends too much time thinking about you or sex.
Try to help him get more going in his life, or it will probably drive you mad being with someone who is too clingy...
I can almost guarantee that it's no fault of yours, he really just needs to find things he likes to do that does not revolve around you
2007-02-20 19:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by Mike S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if he's like that yell back and say hey! i have other things to do then look at your face! and if you guys brake up over that and then get back together? well do i even need to asnwer that? no cuz yea that's already stupid as it is. either you tell him that if he gets mad everytime you can't come over or he doesn't see you everyday, break it up for good! sorry if that sound harsh but yea it's true. no girl should have to put up with that everyday!
2007-02-20 19:37:57 · answer #4 · answered by briget 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nicely tell him that your life does not revolve around him, and that you like him alot, but you need to hang out with your friends and family every now and then. He is obviously crazy about you, you should feel flattered, just kindly let him know that he is being a little to clingy. Good Luck!
2007-02-20 19:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by Lia Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to tell him that sometimes there's other things in life you have do to first that are extremely important. But to not make him feel disappointed, tell him how much you still love him and that might cheer him up.
2007-02-20 19:32:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You bf is really immature. I know you might feel feelings for him but that's the truth. i needs to have hobbies and friends of his on. he might be too lonely. mark my words, if you stay with him any longer at some point it's going to get ugly.
2007-02-20 19:30:39 · answer #7 · answered by yaabro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he sounds do damn clingy some people like that some people dont it seems to me like you dont. just tell his *** to piss off or let you have some of your own damn time. cause everyone needs there space sometimes even to see their other friends
2007-02-20 19:31:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make him understand you both have a life...
2007-02-20 19:30:02 · answer #9 · answered by User 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋