I have been having an affair for 6 months and I am 4 months pregnant. Please help me!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-20 11:25:17 · 28 answers · asked by CoCo Chanel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2007-02-20 11:27:28 · answer #1 · answered by Lacey 4 · 2⤊ 4⤋
I really think you should tell your boyfriend the truth after the baby is born. For now just deal with your pregnancy and concentrate on your health and the baby. Since you don’t know which one fathered the baby, it’s best that you don’t tell him for he might leave you without waiting around to find out if he is or not. For the remaining months before the birth, you have to make a decision whether you need to end the affair. You have to decide which one you really love and see yourself being in a good relationship. If you tell your boyfriend once you have the baby, than you could do DNA test and see where the relationship goes from there. Think about it and hope it works for the best.
2007-02-20 11:57:24 · answer #2 · answered by Ally cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am no phycologist but may personal oppinion on this situation, is that you tell the boyfriend and the brother too. I have been in a similar situation. Not with brothers but just not being sure of who the babies father. If I could do it over again I would have just told both guys that the child may belong to either one of them. The truth will save you and the unborn child alot of grief. Yeah they will probably be upset with you but hey **** happens we are only human and only God can judge us. Don't wait and let it turn intoo a Jerry Springer show. Good Luck!!!!
2007-02-20 11:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by jkcdea6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should. It will only be 1000 times worse years later. The baby might have some rights here too, I'd think. Now that you are going to be a mother, it's time to start thinking about growing up and stop behaving so selfishly and carelessly in your life. Taking responsibility for your actions is the first step, dear.
2007-02-20 11:37:26 · answer #4 · answered by here_nor_there 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether or not you want to stay with your boyfriend or be with the twin brother. If you think you made a terrible mistake, then perhaps you shouldn't risk hurting your boyfriend and risk hurting him further by causing him to hate his own brother. Still, why would you continue to have an affair with your boyfriend's brother? That just isn't cool or nice. It screams "Jerry Springer". Not cool. Really.
2007-02-20 11:30:18 · answer #5 · answered by Chimichanga to go please!! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh God that's bad. Your bf would be devestated that your child might not be his and that he's an uncle not a father. Go and get a DNA test if possible before telling him. Or maybe try the Maury show.
2007-02-20 11:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by zombiepirate_13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have 2 strategies. you are able to tell him previously you are attempting, he would be there for help and he can sense in touch from the very initiating. or you are able to wait til when you are attempting so which you will comprehend in case you even ought to assert something. the final thank you to tell him is in simple terms to return out and say it. Its the least confusing and maximum direct. That way yall can start up making plans as early as a threat. reliable good fortune
2016-10-16 03:20:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well now you have the concequences to deal with, but you need to face up. If theyare lying to eachother, they will do thatto you later. They have to be honest too. looks like you were cheeting on them both... Be honest and find someone who really will care for you and your baby. There are guys out there. Don't steele for anything less than everything!
2007-02-20 12:23:59 · answer #8 · answered by The One I Can't Have 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oooh!You in trouble,that's one of the most deceitful issues I've heard of.That man deserves to know the truth,would you want carry a burdan of guilt for not telling him that for the rest of your life?I don't think so.It was wrong with what you did & your bf would have to pretty stupid to stay with you but evidentally if yo've been wtih the twin brother for that long you must wanna be with him & he should be ashamed,really that's his flesh and blood.I thought twins have a strong bond.Anyways you at least owe that to him,and you know that
2007-02-20 12:55:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow.... hun why did you dig your self in this hole?...
thats to bad- well the only way out is the hard way. Come out truthful and handle it like an adult.
You made some adult choices...now you must act on it and accept whatever consequences come.
Whatever the outcome is- everyone should know the truth.
Come clean and you will be clean.
Good luck and i hope that you have learned from this and will change....
also with all these ppl calling you a skank... its inappropriate... as much as i dont agree at all with what you did- everyone should learn to be adults.
2007-02-20 11:30:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Since they are identical twins, their DNA will be the SAME so you will not be able to tell which one is the father. That being said, you still need to be HONEST with your boyfriend about what you and his brother did. I am not the one to judge you so I will just say...Good luck!!
2007-02-20 15:47:24 · answer #11 · answered by FutureMD29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋