Ive Been Going Out with this girl for 3 Months there has been no action whatsoever.dont get me wrong but im a guy and i got my needs. i really lover her and i dont want to leave her for someone else that already wants to give me some.. what do you think i should do?????
2007-02-20 11:19:21 · 16 answers · asked by THE MEXICAN SAYS.... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
U should continue 2 love her and wait for her as u have been cause if u just consider your needs then u r selfish.Try 2 understand that the only reason she isn't putting out 2 u is because she may be scared of having feelings that are emotional and when a woman gives that part of herself away then it becomes emotional and physical feelings mixed feelings so don't be mad at her.Try to understand her if anything. If u truly love her she will be worth the wait.
2007-02-20 11:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by thelilsxysmoothone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well most girls feel the same. Maybe the reason is because she is to shy or embaressed. If you haven't tried a move on her then do so. Im sure she will go along with it. If you already have tried it may be just because she isn't comfortable yet doing anything. So if you have already tried I would give it one more month or so and if nothing has happend then I would ask what's holding her back.
2007-02-20 19:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, girls don't like to move too fast in a relationship. If you want to move on, that's your choice, but if you really love her you should stay with her all the way. Casually ease into a closer relationship, and she'll choose when to take action. I know you're a guy and if you want to take some action, you'll have to wait patiently for the right time. Best of luck!
2007-02-20 19:23:45 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you tried to make a move?
Besides...are you looking for a fling or a relationship? Depends on if she is worth the wait or not...I personally think you should wait it out...Shes a "good girl" and at least you know shes not a ho!..LOL
2007-02-20 19:23:53 · answer #4 · answered by Tanya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she has needs too... and one of those needs is to remain a virgin ? Ya think? Your not the only guy on this planet who's ever had needs.. Find ways to deal with them..
2007-02-20 19:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by xjaz1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you have to look at it from her suspective she obviously fears that once you start to do stuff anf you get your bit , that you will get up and leave but you have to let her know how much you care for her and maybe have a late night movie with her and see where it goes from there ... but cant stress it enough dont pressure her into anything , you will get what you want just let her know that its ok to do that stuff and that you will stay and that you do love her !!Xxx
2007-02-20 19:26:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, you're going to go out with so many girls in your lifetime, don't waste too much time on one girl. you'll have plenty of time to fall in love when you're older and more mature and capable of handling a committed relationship. from the question, i can tell you aren't ready yet.
2007-02-20 19:24:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is making out that your asking for, make the effort to kiss her. On the other hand, if you want sex, u have to wait until she trusts you more and is closer to you.
2007-02-20 19:23:16 · answer #8 · answered by funnyzombies 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep her. I think your "needs" are actually your "wants". Self-respecting women stay virgins until they're married. If you really love her you can wait. Other men do and they're not dead, are they?
2007-02-20 19:24:39 · answer #9 · answered by iluvpuppies_48 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u love her then u will learn to wait ... why don't u guys talk about it .... communication is the key
2007-02-20 19:23:01 · answer #10 · answered by tweety 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋