like lets say your bf/gf was kissing another person but it was just a simple kiss would you think that is cheating???? i need answers people!!!!!!
2007-02-20 10:45:45 · 15 answers · asked by lvm 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly if my husband did that yes than i would consider it cheating, but i have a double standard here (Because my husband is a jerk) that if I kissed another guy i could live with the guilt and not consider it cheating!
2007-02-20 11:05:48 · answer #1 · answered by Destiny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do believe anything that involves someone of the opposite sex when it is not family even a kiss would be considered cheating.
When you are with someone they are to be with you and with you only when they kiss someone else they are not bewing tru to the other person. Everyone knows the kissing leads to something more so with that being said kissing is something that is only done with the person you are involved with period. A simple kiss can mean something else entirely a peck on the cheek well it can just be a friendly gesture look at the French and many other european customs to peck not once but twice when they meet a friend but usually it is an air gesture no contact is made. If this is something that has happened to you like witnessing your significant other kiss someone with passion of course then I would tell them this hurts your feelings and to not do it again or it is over.
2007-02-20 10:57:53 · answer #2 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. And i hope you haven't and if not, never do so. Your relationship will never be the same again. My bg once cheated on me but i tried to forgive him. We were together for almost a year after that but it was doomed ever since. And after a year of jealousy, nightmares and crying i gave up. Haven't seen him since. I just couldn't take it. If you've done it or are cheating on someone right now, BREAK IT OFF and try to save what's left of your relationship. But don't tell if the poor guy doesn't know. If you've seen your mate kissing someone else, then talk to him and ask him all about it. And if he doesn't have a waterproof explanation, then it's not worth it anymore.
2007-02-20 10:56:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think any betrayal of trust and your commitment is cheating. Meaning holding hands up to having sex. He is betraying the limits of your relationship and THAT is cheating. Even harboring feelings for someone else, or talking to someone secretly on the phone even if nothing "physical" has happened is STILL out of the bounds of common decency and a total lack of respect for the boundaries of a relationship.
2007-02-20 10:56:58 · answer #4 · answered by azwoman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely!! I had that same problem, I caught my boyfriend kissing another girl and I was furious!!! I feel that if you're involved with someone then you need to hold off all other activities with the opposite sex until you break-up!!
Oh yeah!! I didn't break-up with him this time but next I will! I couldn't do it because I loved him too much but don't let love ruin your life!!!
2007-02-20 11:18:07 · answer #5 · answered by CONFuZED 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would depend on the kiss. Was it a peck on the cheek or tonsill hockey? A friend can give another of the opposite sex a peck on the cheek, anything more is unquestionable.
2007-02-20 10:51:25 · answer #6 · answered by jack_black_91 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it would'nt really be called cheating what would be called cheating likegoing out on a date and kissing more than once and its not just one simple kiss just like you said
2007-02-20 10:54:08 · answer #7 · answered by Marissa M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes. i would consider it cheating...
but if it was my boyfriend kissing another person he wouldnt have any lips the next day after that, but thats my opinion...
2007-02-20 10:52:51 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think he shuld not kissed that persen in front of u. "unless he was drunk" but as for me no i dont think kissing is cheating. you have every right to b up set. to me one would have to sleap with a person to call it cheating.
2007-02-20 11:35:21 · answer #9 · answered by farm_boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. a kiss is never platonic unless you are kissing your mom or dad, and that's just on the cheek. he cheated on you. get rid of him.
2007-02-20 10:51:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋