ive known this guy,for about a year.hes in one of my classes.
ive always had a crush on him but my feeling for him have gotten stronger lately.ive been hanging out with him.we hooked up,and apparently cheated on his current gf.(i dont know her,but i know of her)
he likes me...i like him.
he knows.but for some odd reason he wont break up with his gf.
he says he kind of likes her but he feels guilty about what happened.
he says he might break up with her...but he hasn't yet.ill give him...a week maybe to end it.
he said that oh she'll find out eventually.which i think is horrible.he should end it now.
what should i do.??and whats up with him??
2007-02-20 10:30:39 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should break up with him it seems to me he stills have feelings for her.
2007-02-20 10:35:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously playing the both of you. If he'll cheat with you then he'll cheat on you. Think about it. If you get together by cheating then how could you ever trust him? Because six months down the road you'll be the cheated on girlfriend. He's just out for the sex and he's not worth your self respect. Forget him, move on and chalk it off as a mistake and find a guy who isn't taken. Trust me, you'll be much better off I promise you.
2007-02-20 18:39:06 · answer #2 · answered by clayp72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good question but if he hasn't left his other girlfriend then he isnt really over her yet and still wants to date her, you should leave him alone if hes interested in you he would have broken up with his other girl and asked you out, looks aren't everything looks can be decieving i know you're gonna find someone better but maybe hell come around then maybe he wont, get to know him more b4 u jump into a relationship good luck..sounds like he's playin with your emmotions and feelings thats not a good sign ..and if he cheated on his gf then what makes u think he wont do the same for you get out of this situation cuz he'll do it to you dont be a door mat for him you're given him every reason to walk all over you...
2007-02-20 18:42:37 · answer #3 · answered by Army_Wife2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to steer clear of boys in relationships. This is total betrayal, not just by him, but by you to another woman. You need to demand that you are treated like an important individual. And being someone that a boy cheats on his girlfriend with is some of the lowest levels of respect a man can show to a woman.
This guy is obviously not trustworthy. If he can cheat WITH you, he can cheat ON you.
2007-02-20 18:37:46 · answer #4 · answered by azwoman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, i think that u have to talk to him more like a girl who doesn't want just to have fun. If ur feelings for him are stronger now, then u like him as a bf not just as a boy for one short period. so u should talk to him and tell him that u are not the second person here... If u mean anything to him (i honestly hope so) u should tell him to chose. He will brake up or he loses u.... If he want to be with the both THEN HE DOESN'T DESERVE U!!!
Wish u all the best....
2007-02-20 18:44:11 · answer #5 · answered by Just CAVALLI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all if he wants her to find out and get hurt and he doesn't care then hes probably a permanent two timer not good for you or her tell him to break up with her now and if he doesn't then leave him
alone breakup with him you'll find some one else
2007-02-20 18:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by Mercedes aka gata cubana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes in love with two people. One of them is you and the other is his other girlfriend. If he really likes you he would end the other relationship! If he tells you that he needs more time to end it then its not worth it. Tell him straight up that if he really likes you he will leave the other girl or you will make up the decision for him! By dumping him!
2007-02-20 18:36:17 · answer #7 · answered by Here I come I am cinnamon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of boys/guys are chicken when it comes to relationship. Maybe he really likes her - still. Or maybe he is just afraid to break up with her. Most of guys would tell you: I'm gonna end up my relationship, and rarely they really do. It looks to me like this boy of yours is waiting for his girlfriend to find about his cheating and then to see what happens. So if she breaks up with him, he'll be yours. But if she forgives him...?
To give him a week is OK, but don't wait for him for too long.
2007-02-20 18:37:34 · answer #8 · answered by Kontesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that he has to be a real jerk to treat you that way. I think that you deserve alot better than a guy like that! The fact that you still want him to be with you shows that your a person full of love. And you deserve some one who will appreciate that!
Hope all turns out wel! ;)
2007-02-20 18:36:33 · answer #9 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ook first of all... not only is he cheating on her... he's cheating on you. it's works both ways. i think you should tell him to end it or beat it.. i know you have alot of feelings for him but it doesn't mean that you should take a bunch of crap like that... here's the thing... if your giving him sex... don't he's only using you... if he's getting sex from her... he's still only using you for when he gets bored.... don't let someone run over you.. you seem way to sweet... and if no sex is happening.. just have a talk with him and tell him that you don't think it's right and you want him for yourself ---<3 always
2007-02-20 18:37:39 · answer #10 · answered by hisfamouslastwords 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that is kinda harsh for you to do that. Apperantly he still has feelings for her and second of all it is not that easy to break up w/ someone, plus the fact that your basically forcing him to brak up w/ her. And I don't think it is pretty wise to still some elses bf, it seems too childish to do that. Even though his your crush, there are many other boyz around to gank on who are single.
2007-02-20 18:33:48 · answer #11 · answered by Caribou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋