I have have two people on myspace who are on my friend list. One is a girl who I've known since elementary school. The other is guy I really like. I noticed that they were always online at the same time. I started to get suspicious. I found out today that they were dating. My heart sanked. He doesn't know I like him, and she doesn't either. There are signs that make me think he likes me. What should I do?
2007-02-20 10:27:32 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont do anything! he is dating her so that makes him off limits!!! if he is giving signs that he likes you while he is with her then you are better off without him...dont do anything...find a single man
2007-02-20 10:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by kimbersweet 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Keep out of their relationship! That is the worse thing to do! Meaning, don't try and get between them.(Trust me, the same thing happened to me!) What I did was nothing, I mean there is really nothing you can do. Just try to go about life as normal. Try not to let their relationship bother you. When and if they break up, don't be in a rush to get to him! Give them much time to work things out. If you rush into a relationship with him, you'll end up destroying both relationships, with your friend and the guy. And their relationship as well.
Just be pactient the right man for you will be in your life before you know it =D
2007-02-20 10:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by wifeandmommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well dear apparently neither knew so they dare not being spiteful in anyway. I would tell him you always had liking for him and that your oldest friend the girl he is seeing. leave it in his lap to deal with. you can tell her as well but then she might think your after him now that she is seeing him but you can tell her all along you liked him and wished you told her. .don't appear mean or sad to her she needs no guilt trip so say what ya feel next time as i thin k now it is to late for time being until he gets bored. anyway the worst thing i find annoying now is the internet as then you know whos who and chatting to who when both lights are on etc and chat detectives.com so its not a good feeling.. and your spying is going to make you nuts.. so stop..
2007-02-20 10:33:20 · answer #3 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, chances are if you are immature enough to have a myspace and say "my heart sanked" instead of "my heart sunk", then you aren't mature enough to be dating.
Dear goodness, just talk to him, why are questions like these asked 24/7..?!!
2007-02-20 10:31:55 · answer #4 · answered by Kiara 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if they are going out and your friend's having a really good realationship you shouldn't break it up, you will lose a friend and the boy might not go out with you, if i were you and you think the guy likes you wait until he ask you out, that way you will still have a friend and your friend wouldn't be suspicious towards you because you like her bf
2007-02-20 10:31:24 · answer #5 · answered by Breeepppp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
respect their relationship,its to late to tell him how you feel.you cant be mad at neither 1 of them,they didn't know how you felt/feel.no man is worth losing a long time friendship over,especially if you did hookup with him only to find out hes not the 1 for you.
2007-02-20 10:33:58 · answer #6 · answered by walker4907 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing that you can do. You should have told him that you had feelings for him...now it's too late. If you had said something to him sooner, then you could have had him. You said it yourself that they don't know, so what did or do you expect?
2007-02-20 10:35:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she didn't know and it would kill her to she hurt you. I know it hurts but it will get better in time and you'll find another guy. I'm sorry this happened to you.
2007-02-20 10:31:12 · answer #8 · answered by clayp72 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they are together....wether he likes you or not shouldn't be an issue....you need to find someone you can be happy with.
2007-02-20 10:31:45 · answer #9 · answered by b_fab115 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO WHAT YOU LIKE, YOU MIGHT WANNA START WITH CONFESSING YOUR FEELINGS TO THE GIRL AND HAVE A CONVO ABOUT IT
2007-02-20 10:30:16 · answer #10 · answered by J from O 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋