I've been with this guy for about 4 months now, And he's the perfect guy for me.... He's such a sweetheart, he makes me laugh all the time, I can be myself around him, and everything just seems so perfect, I'm even falling for him and he has the same feelings for me..... But why am I having doubts about our relationship, I can't figure it out, He knows there someting wrong with me, but i know if i tell him he'll take it the wrong way i just need some help trying to figure out why i would be having doubts about this great guy and our relationship??
2007-02-20 10:21:45 · 11 answers · asked by Artsy-Fartsy-Momma 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm wondering if your other relationships usually ended badly at about 4 months? Maybe you're somehow just expecting something to go wrong, because in you're experience it usually does. I don't think you have to feel bad about being doubtful...you're still trying to figure out if he really is right for you. Somewhere in there you do know what is bothering you.
2007-02-20 10:31:14 · answer #1 · answered by aguardiente_blkr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the doubt is a sign that something must wrong,either your moving to fast or their is more to this guy than you think or maybe you having second thoughts because you have been hurt and is afraid of going through it again. take your time four mouths is really not a enough time to know someone.
2007-02-20 18:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by sassy1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes nature puts standing doubts in us that don't go away. If you are worried ask your Church or Synagogue to get involved. They may have classes and other advice for you. It your thinking about marriage it is better to be careful or you can find a world of hurt.
2007-02-20 18:28:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ron H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is perfectly normal to have doubts. Doubts are part of the relationship. Time is a great healer if you feel hurt.
2007-02-20 18:27:31 · answer #4 · answered by Tamart 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For it to be great you bother have to think the same about the other but something is holding you back. I suggest that you talk to him subtly and at length about your fears. It is better to do it now than find out you have married someone that you don't like.
2007-02-20 18:25:50 · answer #5 · answered by Closed Down 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're doubting what he's doubting then you're not sure about doubting the doubting. I doubt that his doubts mean your doubts are not really doubtful but it can be so hard to doubt all the doubts that you really can't doubt our doubts and all. I doubt this will help but don't doubt your feelings because you will be full of doubt.........
2007-02-20 18:26:48 · answer #6 · answered by zp055att 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think is wrong with you? Can't answer the question otherwise.
2007-02-20 18:25:03 · answer #7 · answered by Zeek 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe theres something about him that your not seeing that makes you think u 2 cant last
2007-02-20 18:27:23 · answer #8 · answered by levi52291 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen venessbabe,what kinda Problems does he not need to know about, Secrets can destroy a good relationship!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-20 18:28:50 · answer #9 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to good to be true - -is that why?
2007-02-20 18:24:19 · answer #10 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋