I hate my moms boyfriend hes a jerk!!!!!!!
HELP ME!!!!!!
What should I do to get rid of him?
2007-02-20 10:16:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
well it depends on how he is a jerk. if he's disrespectful to you then tell your mom that. or just don't take crap from him. i dont like my mom's boyfriend so much either. he smokes in the house all the time and doesnt have the common courtesy to smoke outside so i dont die! but i just told my mom that it really bothers me. but of course my mom is a bit on the crazy side and grounded me.
2007-02-20 10:21:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem a little bit, i hate my moms boyfriend too he thinks he knows everything, i really miss my dad who lives in all the way across the world from where i am, my dads great but he barely calls. I have a brother and sister who hate my moms boyfriend as well but there both away with there own lifes, im 13 and an idividual now cause my mom thinks im so independent,and have money to buy my own things but im only 13.I don't talk to her that much she works and gose to whereever with her boyfriend. I change so much since my dad left, im matured so much and still am.I wish i could divorce my mom but i need alot a moeny. But everyone has a voice and choose to use it, You should use it, tell your mom how you feel,tell someone how you feel.Do whatever it takes to let her know,stand up for yourself. Maybe i should take my own advice as well.
2016-05-23 23:56:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say his a jerk but you don't say why. All you want is him out of your life. But what about your mom's. Doe's he drink to get drunk in break things , drugs, beats you, beats your mom, calls you mean names because your just sitting there or doing your homework. What? And what gives you the right to try to do something to get rid of your mom's boyfriend. I know you don't want to hear me you want me to tell you ya you can be a b i t c h all day and maybe that will scare him away. But am not. You sound like you have some brat inside you. In if you don't get your way you what things to disappear, well little girl things don't happen that way. Are you paying the bills, putting food on the table. Until you do and you have your own place then you can welcome anyone you like into or out of your life, but if your living with mom you don't have that right. I hope you don't think am ragging on you, I just hope you can understand things.
2007-02-20 10:36:40 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the specific reason that you would like to get rid of your moms bf besides you saying he's a jerk?
2007-02-20 10:20:15 · answer #4 · answered by newozguy1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what ya mean i been there. sux ey? well if you say things to him in front of her she will tell you off and be embarrassed about your behavior and hate ya for the time.. if u let him know when hes not with her you do not like him perhaps he will get the hint.. otherwise do not be there.. go to a friends house to stay adn if she asks say ya cant stand him and ya dont have too.. and u wont tolerate it. there are ways to him not to come around. have a party of girls/guys come over when hes around perhaps he will hate the whole thing and no privacy with ur mom then she might go to his place.. theres ways think about it.. when shes expecting him over make messes :-) , have noise music etc.. he will hate it..do not do anything illegal .. im assuming you talked to her and your reasons.. let her know by all means.. youjr instinct may be wise.. theres a reason.. yes love is blind she cant see this yet.
2007-02-20 11:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by gypsygirl731 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may be a jerk to you but your mom obviously likes him. Are you willing to see your mom get hurt just so you can get rid of a guy you don't like? Maybe you should consider your moms feelings a little bit.
2007-02-20 10:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by navy wife 1996 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
well does he hate u? if he does, tell your mom 2 get rid of him. and if it wont work try to tell your mom that u want 2 go live with your real dad... im not sure if it work, but just give it a try...
good luck :)
2007-02-20 10:23:45 · answer #7 · answered by ~~~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't do anything. He is NOT your boyfriend. You are jealous of your mom. Your mom needs happiness too. Soon you will be leaving the nest and she deserves to get a life going for herself right now and for her future.
2007-02-23 16:54:59 · answer #8 · answered by andyt 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
WELL WHAT CAN I SAY, IF THE MAN IS NOT HURTING YOU OR TRYING TO COME BETWEEN YOU AND YOUR MOM, YOU REALLY SHOULD LEAVE THE RELATIONSHIP ALONE. IF YOU DO ANYTHING TO INDICATE YOU DON'T LIKE THIS MAN, YOU MAY PUSH YOUR MOTHER CLOSER TO THIS MAN. LET NATURE TAKE IT COURSE AND ALSO TELL YOUR MOM HOW YOU FEEL BUT ALSO TELL HER YOU ARE WILLING TO GIVE HIM A CHANCE AND GO FROM THERE. DON'T JUST DISLIKE SOME ONE WITHOUT GIVING THEM A CHANCE. WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND AND DON'T FORGET IT. BECAUSE YOU CAN END UP BEING THE PERSON THAT GOTTEN RID OF.
2007-02-20 10:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by BLUE 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Why do you hate him? Is he a jerk because he tells you not to stay out late and do your home work, becuase he is your mums boyfriend or because of somthing else?
2007-02-20 10:22:43 · answer #10 · answered by Gurpz 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋