with family
2007-02-20 10:12:18 · 21 answers · asked by Gerry W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
oh yea ofcorse it is possible . in nice place and with family wat else would u want. its perfect
2007-02-20 10:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by Tiger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is, but I think you need to be honest with the members of the family that you don't invite and you have to have a clear cut off point of what level of family you invite - if it's really small then keep it to parents, siblings only -I think the main rule is that if you invite one aunt/uncle (and the same for any other band of relation i.e. cousin) then you have to invite them all I think.
It's always a bit sensitive, and sometimes you can't always please everyone but it is possible to have a wonderful small wedding. You can always catch up with the ones you don't invite on another occasion - or perhaps have drinks at your home for an informal get together.
2007-02-21 22:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by Boo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is. My fiancee and i are getting married next year and we only have about 35 ppl coming including us and our 2 young boys. We found a venue that does both the wedding and reception for under 4k and that includes everything from the wedding to reception with food, decor and booze. All we have to provide is the favors and photographer. So it is possible and eepending on where you're at it can also be pretty cheap while still being memorable.
2007-02-20 10:21:18 · answer #3 · answered by hotmamainmi1982 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is possible me and my husband had a small wedding with just family and then had a party at night an invited our friends then.It was the best day of my life and made it much more special sharing it with family.And it didn't cost the earth either.
2007-02-23 01:47:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can make a wedding as large or as small as you wish. I decieded when I was getting married to invite all my friends and a view family reason being half my family I only see at weddings or funerals and some of them I don't know at all
2007-02-20 10:22:06 · answer #5 · answered by kittiebann 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes you can. Millions do. Just decide exactly what you want, don't be put under pressure by anyone if that is your choice. I will add as a mum I wouldn't like not to have been there at my daughters weddings but my neighbour who is also very close to her son didn't mind at all last year when only her son and partner went abroad to marry. You see we are all different!
2007-02-21 00:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends. I wanted a small wedding, then added up the numbers and realised that my fiance's "immediate family" (i.e. the people we wouldn't dream of excluding) came to over 20 people. Then we asses in my family (10 people) and a few friends - before you know it, it's a complete spectacle! Should be great though. It just depends on your own circumstances.
2007-02-20 21:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's possible to do anything you want. All you need for the wedding is the couple, the officiant, two witnesses and the marriage license. Everything else is optional.
2007-02-20 10:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes it's possible. you have the wedding you want. a small wedding is easier to organise. Registry office or church, flowers, eating venue, outfits and honeymoon. Oh and invitations. Good luck
2007-02-20 20:46:45 · answer #9 · answered by laplandfan 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At our wedding we had 32 people, family and a few close friends.
After our honeymoon when we were looking relaxed and tanned we had a party with all of our friends.
If you want to save money on different parts of your wedding and therefore have more money to spend on more guests or your honeymoon or a deposit for house then have a look at my website http://www.cheap-wedding-solutions.com
Good luck with all of your planning!
2007-02-20 22:29:07 · answer #10 · answered by cheap_wedding_solutions 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if its what you both want.
My mum did the second time round. She / We arranged the church - no hymns or anything. Didn't invite people to the church, but family and close friends came to witness the ceremony. And then they left.
My mum, now step-dad, his best-man and mayself went for a meal - nothing too fancy, just the 4 of us. They then went home, got changed and went to a caravan for the weekend. I went home and the best man went to work.
You can have what you want. Just tell people.
2007-02-20 10:19:21 · answer #11 · answered by lynn a 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋