I LEFT HER FOR ANOTHER GIRL AND IM BACK WITH HER WILL SHE CHEAT ON ME TO GET EVEN. SHE SAYS SHE WONT AND THAT SHE LOVES ME MORE THAN ANYTHING. CAN I REALLY TRUST HER I BELIEVE EVERYTHING SHE SAYS. I LOVE HER
2007-02-20 10:10:04 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
who knows, only time will tell, good luck. You know what they say what goes around comes around.
2007-02-20 10:13:00 · answer #1 · answered by ... 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you love her that much, why did you leave her? She may cheat and that's the honest answer, although some people are mature enough to honestly forgive and let go. But I wouldn't be surprised if she is still hurting in some way and she supressed the anger she feels but it will come to surface later. I'm not saying break up with her, but you need to take extra precautions to prove that she is just everything to you, and you truly regret taking her for granted. If you start to drift away, she may feel like you're looking for someone else again, and then find her own someone else. Be very careful.
2007-02-20 10:14:52 · answer #2 · answered by Just another opinion 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's the other side of cheating. Now you don't know if she's going to cheat on to get back at you.
Why didn't you just stay with the other girl?
If you can't trust your g/f why bother pursuing the relationship? If you cheated on her, doesn't that mean that you didn't like her that much in the first place?
I don't think you love her, I think she's given you what you needed for the moment. I just think that if she stops giving you as much as before, you'll go cheating on her again.
2007-02-20 10:15:03 · answer #3 · answered by Querida 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your lucky she even took you back. I think the last thing you should be doing right now is questioning her intentions and focus on making her and yourself happy. You are going to live in fear because of what you did. She forgave you, be thankful that and do not take advantage of her and hurt again if you say you love her like you do. Show her you love her and earn her trust back and treat her how she deserves to be treated. Not like someone you can discard and then come running home to.
2007-02-20 10:49:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she does, then you forgive and move on. Since you cheated on her keep in mind that as long as you stay with her, it will be used as AMMO in mostly any issue that comes between you.
She might not cheat and will stay as loyal as can be, but remember it will always be a memory to her and wont go away.
2007-02-20 10:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by Tulip 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should trust her if she hasn't cheated on you before there's no reason that she would start now. I think you should enjoy your relationship with her and stop having doubts. If you keep on having doubts that would just make things worse and akward. Just be chill and go with it. And dont cheat!
2007-02-20 10:14:47 · answer #6 · answered by Alli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Definitely.
Your first mistake was leaving her for another girl. Your second was coming back. Your third is that you love her. All perfect ingredients for her to cheat.
2007-02-20 10:14:12 · answer #7 · answered by marklemoore 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The question is - can she really trust you? You are the one who cheated on her.
2007-02-20 10:18:36 · answer #8 · answered by Babycat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No If she does never take her back let her know that. It works EVERY time and you can find out if she really loves you. If she cheats she doesn't love you. vice versa
2007-02-20 10:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by Conrado 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"To merit the madness of love, man must abound in sanity." Clearly, young man, can I answer you? The fool can. She'll flip a coin and you'll win--if it comes out your way. Have I answered your question? No. Madness! Madness! Ahh!
2007-02-20 10:15:49 · answer #10 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably won't, but YOU probably will again.
.....once a cheating ba$tard always a cheating ba$tard!!
and she will NEVER ever trust you the same again, she will always doubt when you say you went "somewhere" with "someone"......
you blew it!!!
I feel sorry for HER for taking YOU back!
2007-02-20 10:14:31 · answer #11 · answered by Minky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋